"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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was out of control horny today...hungover. Date went well, at least it was going well. Asking lots of questions, etc...Held hands with me in the movie, let me feel her up a bit...Granted...bit too touchy too soon and there were people beside us. Oh well..couldn't help myself.
she told me "do you always do these public displays of affection" as the movie was over (said this somewhat jokingly)
Problem was we went straight to the movie and it was the first time I met her (online chick) not like there was a dinner or long walk first.

Of course there is a chance she just didn't like me but she kept holding my hand and touching me in the movie...so Im on the fence with this 1
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yeah dude you did nothing wrong. Don't even mention and stay the course. If anything, slightly come off the pressure a little if you notice she's uncomfortable, but push for the lay 100%.
 
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Apologize for WHAT?
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Grabbing her ass within my first 45 minutes of knowing her? she was an okcupid chick, I met her in the parking lot and walked straight into the movie. no dinner or talking to her prior aside from the meet and greet part....I cant help but she thinks im a creep now. just felt like I timed it wrong
 
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denverfan110 said:
Yeah dude you did nothing wrong. Don't even mention and stay the course. If anything, slightly come off the pressure a little if you notice she's uncomfortable, but push for the lay 100%.
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honestly dude Ive been on so many dates, so many different types of women and they are all so different. that's why I never put anything in a black and white category..... every situation really is different.

no matter how many dates we go on, or how good we get with reading a woman's body language or picking up on her cues if they like us or not, every now and then it's just hard to tell but when she kept holding my hand in the movie I figured ok.

She didn't try to get out of her plans with her sister to hang out with me after the movie though and wouldn't let me grab her ass in the parking lot every time I tried to... not a good sign.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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captain55 said:
Grabbing her ass within my first 45 minutes of knowing her? she was an okcupid chick, I met her in the parking lot and walked straight into the movie. no dinner or talking to her prior aside from the meet and greet part....I cant help but she thinks im a creep now. just felt like I timed it wrong
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Glabbing her ass within the first 45 minutes of knowing her is EXACTLY WHAT I WOULD DO. The fastest way to f*ck a girl is to get grabby very soon. :up:

It seems you want to apologize for behaving too alpha and not being a bigger faggot --> Dinner.. talking = faggot sh!t. :yes:
 
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Even so apologizing for being too alpha will get you nowhere. Will just make you look like a chump putting on an alpha persona.

Stay the course, but be less aggressive and still confident if you are getting bad vibes. Don't apologize.

And hey, if you did move to quickly and she's turned off, NEXT. She's an okcupid chick. Dime a dozen.
 
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captain55 said:
honestly dude Ive been on so many dates, so many different types of women and they are all so different. that's why I never put anything in a black and white category..... every situation really is different.

no matter how many dates we go on, or how good we get with reading a woman's body language or picking up on her cues if they like us or not, every now and then it's just hard to tell but when she kept holding my hand in the movie I figured ok.

She didn't try to get out of her plans with her sister to hang out with me after the movie though and wouldn't let me grab her ass in the parking lot every time I tried to... not a good sign.
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I hope you are aware that being alpha requires taking risks. You can not know in advance what a girl will be into and its none of your concern anyway, you must lead the interaction by expressing yourself.
 
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Never apologize. She was reciprocating.

Just don't get too grabby as to give her the impression you haven't been laid in a decade and are desperate for some ass.

But as the others said, you did nothing wrong.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Apologizing is beta by default. Don't take this the wrong way, if you really fvcked up then go ahead and apologize but don't make a habit out of it. It's always best to think from a high value perspective. We all know women want a mate who has higher value than her. A person with higher value wouldn't be apologizing for trivial sh!t
 
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I've said this before. Never ever, ever, ever, ever back pedal, or apologize unless you really fvcked up bad, and its a serious ltr or marriage.

Otherwise just act like it never happened, and don't care if shes mad or bothered.

Don't care what she thinks.
 
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