"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi guys out there. I am Dani. Im from Zurich.

I met her once. It was funny. I am 20, she is 28. I talked with her while we had a drink. I told her a little bit about what I know about women because she wanted to know. I impressed her and she said that she likes it. Alright, I dont know how true that is. Anyway, I took her email and wrote her a simple email: "hi I am blabla last Friday blabla etc. "

Her email:

Hey Dani Boy,

I am fine. I was in London last weekend.
I visited my family. I have two nephews 17 and 13 and you remind me of them.
How are you? What's up?

Amisha



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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by Master of Seduction
Hi guys out there. I am Dani. Im from Zurich.

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Her email:

Hey Dani Boy,

I am fine. I was in London last weekend.
I visited my family. I have two nephews 17 and 13 and you remind me of them.
How are you? What's up?

Amisha

...

Forget it. She did you a favor: she TOLD you that you are a boy, not a man. Great time saver.
 

TxCowboy

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Originally posted by Master of Seduction
Hi guys out there. I am Dani. Im from Zurich.

I met her once. It was funny. I am 20, she is 28. I talked with her while we had a drink. I told her a little bit about what I know about women because she wanted to know. I impressed her and she said that she likes it. Alright, I dont know how true that is. Anyway, I took her email and wrote her a simple email: "hi I am blabla last Friday blabla etc. "

Her email:

Hey Dani Boy,

I am fine. I was in London last weekend.
I visited my family. I have two nephews 17 and 13 and you remind me of them.
How are you? What's up?

Amisha



Hey Don Juans out there what do you think? What's going on here? And what should I write her back to create attraction? Thanks...

If some girl compared me to a sibling of theirs or nephew - I would be so insulted , I'd prolly tell her that I'm not some lil 5 yr old boy toy of hers ...

What a croc dude ...

Peace out from H-Town
 

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tell her she reminds you of your mother hahahaha a
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hey Amisha Girl,

Kindly remove the stick from up your rear end before your next e-mail.

Yours truly,
MAN BOY
 
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