"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to allure girls - Pretend you don't want them

KoalaKing

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If you desire to have the hottest babes swarming around you the best way to get this to happen is by showing no interest in them at all.

For this to work there are a few things that you need to have (1) a deep tone of voice (2) an air of confidence about you (3) the ability to compliment woman concerning their beauty without making it appear as if you are interested in picking them up or being involved in a relationship with them (4) don't focus on the one woman, talk to everyone who is in the environment and never show favourtism to any attractive woman (5) always look everyone straight in the eyes when you are speaking to them.

If you can do these things, never place a woman on a pedestal, never show any anger or jealousy or envy when you see another guy with a girl whom you desire, value yourself as an equal to every pretty girl that you see, and talk to every pretty girl that you meet as if you don't care if she likes you or not, you will soon discover that your value will quickly rise.

If you have a pet Dog or a pet Cat then you are not going to react to them as if they are of a much higher value than yourself, but if you do decide to treat your animals as if they are of a higher level of status than you are yourself even they will pick up on this and do as they please, it all depends on the way that you interact with them concerning how they will behave when they are around you.

If you let your Dog shi-t on the floor in your kitchen it will continue to do it, if you let your cat pis-s on your bed it will keep on doing this, if you let the kids next door wreck your garden and don't tell them off they will continue to do this, if the man at your local shop is always overcharging you for the items that you buy from him and you don't tell him off about it he is going to keep on ripping you off every time that you go into his shop.

It is the same with girls, if you treat them as if they are better than you they will walk all over you.

The thing is your Dog has to stay with you if it doesn't respect you, though the most attractive woman have many other options, if they can pick up on the fact that you are flustered by their presence, or that you are desperate to win over their affections, they will immediately think, this guy is a loser, he can't attract any pretty girl, so they will treat you like shi-t, but if you don't show any real interest in her she will think that you have the ability to allure so many other gorgeous girls that she will soon be chasing you. :yes:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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KoalaKing

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It is very important to approach and converse with the girls, it is just that you compliment them on their beauty in a way that it seems as if it is something you believe more than something that you actually desire to have for yourself.

When the opportunity arises you talk to the girl that you like, but you don't focus all of your attention on her and follow her around.

If she is talking to another guy you act as if it doesn't bother you as you are talking with others at that same time.

When you are talking with another guy at a party you talk to him as if you are only interested in this conversation at the time, you don't always glance at the girl who is talking with the other guy at that time.

If you can talk to other attractive woman at a party and not only the one that you like, it is possible that you may end up with another attractive girl and not the one whom you desired at the beginning.

AFC guys have no vision at all, they just focus on the one gorgeous girl, and don't even realize that there are so many other pretty ladies around, this is their biggest mistake of them all because what it does is makes that one girl their only desire, their only option, their only hope for that particular time, which gives her the immediate power over them.

AlphaMale's have much greater vision than this, they will see two or ten or fifty hot babes at a party and move around talking to everyone that is there, not focusing on just the one girl, but on everyone at the party, which means that they will seem more confident and less needy, as well as the fact that they are creating many more opportunities for themselves.

What this means is that the pretty girls become jealous of the other pretty girls with whom the AlphaMale is conversing with and as the result of this they will try to allure him back to them, in reality these girls are just like AFC males but in reverse. :up:
 
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