"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How to act w/ hostility toward girlfriend?

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SoSuaveScorp

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Hey fellow DJs, just a question on my mind.
My current girlfriend is being threatened by some ***** (another woman). I understand this is usually just drama, but for future references (like in a bar or something) I'm wondering how the male should act, or what the male should do in this situation? Just let the girl handle her own **** or show some balls to the *****?

thanks for the answers!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tough question. A man can never threaten a woman physically without compromising himself enormously. If it were your woman acting that way, you would just walk away. In this case you might have to just avoid the other woman and let the law handle it should it escalate to that level. For example, is she threatening her with violence (assault) or physically harming her (assault and battery)?

If it's happening in a bar scene, maybe just give her enough rope to let her hang herself?
 
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