"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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Hey fellow DJs, just a question on my mind.
My current girlfriend is being threatened by some ***** (another woman). I understand this is usually just drama, but for future references (like in a bar or something) I'm wondering how the male should act, or what the male should do in this situation? Just let the girl handle her own **** or show some balls to the *****?

thanks for the answers!
 

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Tough question. A man can never threaten a woman physically without compromising himself enormously. If it were your woman acting that way, you would just walk away. In this case you might have to just avoid the other woman and let the law handle it should it escalate to that level. For example, is she threatening her with violence (assault) or physically harming her (assault and battery)?

If it's happening in a bar scene, maybe just give her enough rope to let her hang herself?
 
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