Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How to act towards a woman after sex?

deepower

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I told some chick that she looked rough when she came to meet for our 3rd date. I told her she looked like she was banging some other guy.
She got pissed and left.
You need some class...that even if it is true is something that wouldn't have any possible good outcome. And if you didn't like the girl why you was with her in the first place. Your message is very clear to an intelligent person,either you are projecting or you are incredible stupid.
And if that is an example of your behavior towards a woman I don't really understand why are you questioning yourself that they don't want to be with you again. Also it shows the type of women that you are with.
Have some self respect and educate yourself!!!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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exhausted

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I get a lot one night stands. The problem is -- I cant make it to the 2nd sex encounter before I get dumped. Its so easy to charm the pants off a woman and nail her the first night. But svck at relationships. I cannot remember the last time I had sex with the same girl twice. lol
I nail on first night...and then they compliment me the next day...say I was great in bed, nice body, handsome, etc. We text back and forth and plan on hooking up again---and then they flake out eventually.

How does one keep a girl interested sexually? Its so easy to have a night stand and then watch them disappear. Its been that way my whole life.
No disrespect but work on your sex game.
If you can master that they will always come crawling.
I was always good but I learned some things (pace, pressure, depth, lightly touching, mixing it up to holding a girls wrists sternly , things like this) and now my game in bed is out of this world (from what I am told, seriously).
I just read and read and learned a bit more. Never hurts.
 

Yewki

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pierce_r what do you say to them when they they......."Wht ru up 2?"
I don't know about pierce_r, but I say "Why do you need help turning on auto correct?"

Misspelling "wht" to avoid typing an "a" .... cringeworthy. Trying way too hard to be cool and nonchalant.
 

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This sounds like something a guy would say, specifically a guy who has read pickup material. I don't think I've ever heard a woman say this, usually they are all about texting.

My personal opinion is that texting is okay, as long as you have something interesting to say. Obviously you don't want to overdo it, just like you don't want to hang on the phone forever like teenagers. Usually there are better things to do.
I mean you don't have to do all that texting to "entertain" them... Just setup the next hookup and there isn't much else to talk about. Keep it light outside of that.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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pierce_r

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I don't know about pierce_r, but I say "Why do you need help turning on auto correct?"

Misspelling "wht" to avoid typing an "a" .... cringeworthy. Trying way too hard to be cool and nonchalant.
I have my deal-breakers, but textspeak isn't one of them. Anymore. It used to be, but I quickly realized that it would cull the herd way too far. Pick your battles, is what I'm saying, here.
 
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