"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How to act at a concent?

alphaace

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So, Green Day is going to be playing in my state and I've never been to a concert before in my life but im really interested in going to this one. Has anyone been to a rock concert like this? How do you act? Im gonna try and get this girl to come with me and if I succeed and we do end up going I don't wan't her to think this is my first concert.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Got to post age your age man, forum rules.

I grew up playing in bands (still do) and going to shows 2-3x a week so I'll throw you a few pointers.

A. It's called a "show". Old folks and parents call it a "concert"...

B. There will likely be a mosh pit, which varies but is usually towards the front. Stand a few layers of people behind the pit so that you and your girl aren't jostled around too much. You can stand at the front, by the stage, but usually people are getting jostled around and squeezed in so much that it's less than ideal if you've got a girl with you.

C. Speaking of having a girl with you, shows are a great place for kino. Keep her in front of you so that you can monitor and make sure some idiots aren't going to fly into her full bore from out of nowhere. Use touch to direct her to where she should be or move her when people are moving, etc. People will be moving back and forth as a crowd, sometimes rather unexpectedly and with force, so shield her from the maddening crowd with your shoulders and arms.

D. Are you a Green Day fan? If not you'd do well to learn the words to as many as their songs as you can. It's more fun when you can sing along and you'll appear more authentic and not like some poseur just there for the girl he's with. In addition, look up the opening bands too and if you like them familiarize yourself with their material too.

E. It will be loud. Very loud. A trick I always use is to grab some tp from the bathroom, wad it up into a small ball, and shove it in your ears for makeshift ear plugs. You could bring real ear plugs of course but that seems kind of dorky to me for some reason ha. Plus you can show her the way and look like you do this all the time in the process.

F. When they leave the stage at the end of show, stick around. They'll most likely come back out for an encore. You'll notice most will be still hanging around, that's why.

G. This applies to indoor venues: regardless of how cold it is outside, leave your jacket in the car and encourage her to do the same. It'll get damn hot in there and you don't want to be carrying your jacket the whole time. Also leave your wallet and phone, you don't want to lose them or get jacked. People get pick pocketed at shows all the time. Only bring your ID and cash (for drinks or whatever) in your front jeans pocket.

Alright man, that's about it, good luck!
 

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Oh of course I'm a Green Day fan, huge fan. As for the leave your phone bit, I'm guessing trying to get pictures is outta the question? And how much do drinks run?
 
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