"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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how to acquire a fuk buddy in highschool?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just gotta find the right girl thats not too clingy and just wants it I guess. Kind of an open-ended question... don't really know how to respond specifically.
 

FlyGuyM

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lmao i live in brooklyn NY; secrets spread fast... so no girl is really up for that. but ive had 2 fukk buddys all i had to do was tell the "truth".. "i treat girls very bad, i cheat & i break hearts, i dont want to do the same to you...cuz i kinda like you, but i really want you, like really bad.. i just dont wana hurt you.. :) come over 2morow" ive only tried that twice, and it worked twice. i still have 1 fukk buddy... but the other one got a boyfriend & wanted to be faithful :-/ whatever... Goodluck buddy
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Jakeg123

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I literally just asked my ex to be bang buddies. Said something like, "lets have a little fun, just between us." and she was totally down, and it worked for a while. But make sure you have more than one girl to talk to, I got one-itis and ended up back with her...I have another one though. I talked to her twice for less than 10 minutes each time and she randomly took my number and texted me one night to hangout, came over, sex, and now its basically whenever I need some I give her a ring.
 

Mr Wright

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You have to be really really careful. I got a f buddy in high school by being straight up and honest about what i wanted from her, but i also made it clear to her that i understood the social problems she might get from it. When you start calling it all out, it kinda alleviates her concerns and if she wants to she will probably do it because you've shown maturity and who doesnt like sex?!
 

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2 rules;

1) Dont lie, tell her exactly what you want(just sex), if she still flirts and stuff then you can probably make her 1

2) tell her you like everything to be discreet, a girl will care more about her reputation than having sex with you, but if shes got nothing to worry about then its all good.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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