"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mafia men have a certain look to them, no not in dress code, etc. But in their eyes and facial expression. The blatnoy look, or the gee look. If you look at mafia exemplars you'll know what I'm talking about.

Is this look achievable? Is there a guide?

I'm asking cuz I recently found there is a forum much like this for making your **** larger, so who knows, maybe there is one for looking like a mobster.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I assume you're talking about the Russian mob.

From the few wannabes I've encountered on Northeast Philly your facial expression should include red eyes, constant sniffing from your coke habit, yellowed and missing teeth, and a couple shaving scars to lie about. Add to that the open chest silk shirts, a hairy chest, and fake gold chains and you are in like Stalin suki!

Honestly, why would you want to look like those losers? There are plenty of successful people to model yourself after. Find them and look for good influences.
 

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No, I don't want to look like an American hobo or redneck.


Mobsters have a look to their eyes. They have a wolf look to them. When one mobster looks at another he recognizes a mobster in him, but when he looks at a regular joe, he see a pray. You look into their eyes and it's like looking into predators eyes, they'll never blink or turn away. Kind of like alpha male, but more dangerous.
 

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Yea, if it's all confidence, then why other confident non mob, non corruption guys, have a completely different look?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Drdeee said:
No, I don't want to look like an American hobo or redneck.


Mobsters have a look to their eyes. They have a wolf look to them. When one mobster looks at another he recognizes a mobster in him, but when he looks at a regular joe, he see a pray. You look into their eyes and it's like looking into predators eyes, they'll never blink or turn away. Kind of like alpha male, but more dangerous.
You're 30 dude. Act it.

These sh!theads look this way because they have to. You, obviously, don't. Stop your fantasies and accomplish things. With accomplishments comes more confidence and a more confident look.
 

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You're hung up on "looks". On superficial things. On people's opinions of you.

Instead of asking "How can I become the kind of guy that is confident, self-reliant, and resourceful?", I see you ask "How do I LOOK like I'm confident, self-reliant, and resourceful without actually needing to do all of that stuff?"

It's like going out to a martial arts store and just buying a black belt instead of earning one.
 

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It's not the look, it's the aura those guys have not just their facial expression.

Just like you can recognize a nice guy, a drug addict, a b1tchy girl, we can recognize those who are dangerous.
Hard to say how but I think it's not only an appearence thing, our bodies produce certain chemicals according to our feelings and hormones.
Those substances can be smell at subconscious level,it has been proven from many studies.

Just to keep it simple a nice guy in front of a girl is nervous therefore his cortisol level will rise, his testosterone is low because of all the defeats he had from girls and other men, he smell different from a man who knows he can kill you if you piss him off and is used to get hotties because of his status or bend other men through threats.

I say its an aura made of body language and body chemistry, it's not something you can fake, you can just act in order to reach the goal that gives you that aura.
 

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at this time in your life you ethier are a bad @ss dude with confidence and the look that attracts them (dont think steroids will get you a women ethier) or your not.

that is one thing I am so glad I have. I am happy I dont have to go out to make myself look more....(whatever)

I have people ask me all the time when I was out if I fought mma. mma is dumb and anyone can be an mma fighter all you have to do is say your one.
 

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FairShake said:
I assume you're talking about the Russian mob.

From the few wannabes I've encountered on Northeast Philly your facial expression should include red eyes, constant sniffing from your coke habit, yellowed and missing teeth, and a couple shaving scars to lie about. Add to that the open chest silk shirts, a hairy chest, and fake gold chains and you are in like Stalin suki!

Honestly, why would you want to look like those losers? There are plenty of successful people to model yourself after. Find them and look for good influences.
Russian mob in Philly? :crackup: :crackup: Dude, keep dreaming. Hollywood is unhealthy for you. Russians can't even get a visa to visit America.

I can just see a bunch of Chechens running around Philly. :crackup: The combination of the Russian language and Islam would be sure to make wimpish Americans hide in their basements with copious amounts of Apple products and Starbucks.

http://assets.nybooks.com/media/img/blogimages/kadyrov_jpg_470x450_q85.jpg
Yeah, I can see America accepting a Muslim man who collects pictures of Putin and walks around with a golden gun. Nope, lets let the white boys in suburban Philly think that black dudes from the ghetto who rap are tough. What they don't know won't hurt them. And yes, a few hundred Chechen men would take over all of Philly if they wanted. Those dudes are the toughest, baddest, scariest humans on earth. They don't date, they just kidnap virgins......
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-j9EqcuzBPU
Yep, Chechen pickup. Take that! :crackup: Trust me, Americans have NO CLUE what parts of Europe are really like.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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BigJimbo said:
Russian mob in Philly? :crackup: :crackup: Dude, keep dreaming. Hollywood is unhealthy for you. Russians can't even get a visa to visit America.
They came when visas were plentiful. Mostly Jews from 1979 to 1984 and Ukranians and Russians after the fall of the Soviet Union. Today it has slowed down alot but I've met new people from Georgia, Tajikistan, and Uzbekistan lately. In local business circles they all kinda become the "Russian Mob" even though a lot aren't Russian and they don't really get together like a mob. This is for both legit and illegitimate immigrants unfortunately.

As an aside, the Eastern European immigrant teens and young men in Philly tend to act Black. They listen to rap, dress hood, and buy their drugs from Black kids.
 

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As an aside, did you notice white women desiring black men? It's beyond femenization, it's extermination. This trend exists only in western countries, China, and Russia are not affected.



So mafia look is not achievable but through chemistry of the body.
 

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Drdeee said:
As an aside, did you notice white women desiring black men? It's beyond femenization, it's extermination. This trend exists only in western countries, China, and Russia are not affected.



So mafia look is not achievable but through chemistry of the body.
First off are you really 30?

And bro, its not about look, its about attitude.
 

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Drdeee said:
As an aside, did you notice white women desiring black men? It's beyond femenization, it's extermination. This trend exists only in western countries, China, and Russia are not affected.
That's true. My guess is Russian women are too busy hopping on Georgian c0ck, Turkish c0ck, Western c0ck, Chinese c0ck and pretty much every c0ck other than Russian c0ck to worry about Black c0ck.

Then again, there aren't many Blacks in Russia yet so time will tell.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Please don't try to look intimidating unless you are at least 200 pounds of solid muscle, have a criminal record of violent street fights and/or carry a AK47 with you. Everyone will just laugh at your face, or behind your back, otherwise.
 

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FairShake said:
That's true. My guess is Russian women are too busy hopping on Georgian c0ck, Turkish c0ck, Western c0ck, Chinese c0ck and pretty much every c0ck other than Russian c0ck to worry about Black c0ck.

Then again, there aren't many Blacks in Russia yet so time will tell.
And where exactly did you get this idea? watching mtv or E?
You probably confuse them with german women or swedish ones.

There are many blacks in Russia, you can easily find them on youtube getting beated regularly along with georgians, armenians and the others you named,trust me any girl does her best to not be seing with them all.
It's not "cool" there, and you know the sheep mentality of girls.

There are no such things as white guilt in Russia nor stereotypes about whites being pussies or emasculated just like there are no standards when it comes of violence, actually is the opposite many police officers simply pretend to dont see when certain foreigners get harassed.

This thing is actually disgusting even to me that Im far from any form of PC, however I would never compare that situation with the opposite one that happen in the pc scandinavia where its the foreigners that regularly abuse of natives near an absent police.

Just remember that there exist a world outside the usa,good or bad it does.
 

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I don't look like a gangster, but I do get told that I look like a cop. Mexicans always whisper policia or INS when they see me. I've had drunk or high guys in bars try to start up with me because they think I'm a cop. I've been told that I have a very authoritative look and my voice tends to carry. I've been told that I'm intimidating and that when I look at someone its like I can see right through them. Cops do tend to go easy on me on traffic stops. I've used it to my advantage, I tend to attract cop chasers and the more of a jerk I am the more they love it.
 

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And where exactly did you get this idea?
Travel. Both between Philly and New York where many Russians have planted roots and Europe and Asia.

Russian women in particular and Eastern European women in general are known for being very easy for any guy who isn't Russian. They have such a distaste for Russian men who are considered poor drunken assh0les that they go for everyone else.

As for the beatings, if Russian women hate Black men so much why do the lonely sexless Russian Nazis bother with them? We rarely strike out at people we don't fear...
 

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You watch too many movies, pal.

You need to find YOUR look.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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