How time is not so essential...

[Kineti[C]harm]

Ok some days or maybe a week back I told in some thread about this girl... She's HB8-8.5 I met in august/september change somewhere.... We met at a party, I met her and her friend. I talked some with them since I sat close to them but generally didn't pay much attention... Now I met her friend out aprox a week later and she told me her friend liked me etc and gave me her nr. So we started texting some on our cells, lots of sexual inuendo etc talk about dates etc. But I flaked on her several times cause I was busy with other stuff....

Now abit over a week ago or something I passed her in the hall here, brief eyecontact on passage and a smiling hi =) I sendt her an SMS again that evening. Most people where like "ooho cowardly, not phoning etc" blahblah. Who cares. And she was all like "great to see you again, lets do something etc" yepp. Soo last night I was drunk out of my senses clubbing and dancing alot don't caring so when I was waiting for a taxi I phoned the HB and talked with her about doing something sometime soon cause I was going home 3 weeks for christmas...

Now she just called me and I'm invited today in 4 hours to her house for candles and wine

See, 3+ months of NO contact, a couple of sms and she invites ME to HER place for wine... Funny how the IL didn't fade and time didn't magically turn her into anti-me mood... =)

I bet someone will have some ravingly good explanations on this =)

Just thought i'd share =)

 

[Jay Fiedler]

Obviously you lucked out because she had nothing better come along in the meantime and she must have had high IL from the start. During that three months she still thought of you and had nothing come along that would make her forget you.

However......I highly recomend against this approach to use all the time as most decently attractive girls will have alot of guys show interest in them in a three month time span. And the texting? High schoolish and immature, and it shows a lack of conviction and balls to just up and call her. You lucked out on this one, but next time won't be so lucky. Nonetheless...god luck.

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

Just for your information.. I've never had any girl flake on me via either SMS or phone... SMS works brilliantly... Another nice point of SMS is that they cannot hear your voice so they do not know how your sarcasm and inuendos are ment so they start obsessing somewhat.

I don't normally play it this way but I had forgotten all about her in those 3 months and when I finally saw her again I thought, what the hell.

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

So report

as I said she asked me over for wine and stuff so I arrived briefly past the set time. Greeted her... She did a quick tour of the appartment she is sharing and we go into her room and she immediately sits down on her bed (kingsize doublebed). She offers me wine and we get chatting, she leans towards the wall while I lay on the side of the bed. We drink our glasses and she asks if I want more so I take her glass and fill both up and this time I sit closer. We sit there talking for maybe an hour. All the time she is giving mad eyecontact and doing the triangle (eyes, mouth, eyes). I'm teasing, I don't go inn for the kiss, I'm not even touching her at all only tickling her some cause she is ticklish. You can see her lingering for it. So after the second wineglass I place my hand behind her head and move inn and kiss her and boy does she respond

It was fun cause we talked alot and laid in bed for a long time afterwards and she was telling me how I had teased her with not kissing her and how she had lingered. And god was she horny the whole evening, after we got it on I couldn't even touch her skin without her shivering.


Well the fun thing was that she is a really cute and introvert girl but inn bed oh boy she is not. She took control and I loved it. She pushed me back and held down my hands and had her way. 8 hours later I was in a cab on my way home with fond memories of "redecorating her walls" She was exhausted and almost fell asleep, when I had to leave she was pulling me back all the time, locking me down. But I had to leave, I of course said I wanted to stay which i partially did but that I had to leave because of travelling tomorrow. She kept asking for seeing me after christmas again when we both come back to college but I dodget it. I now know that her IL was very high from before because afterwards she told me "If I tell any of my friends you visited they'll know something happened" I was like "Oh ye, cause all boys you bring home ends in bed ?" then she blushed and said "No, I told my friends I liked you..." So it was a very very nice evening =) Especially considering I was dirt drunk lastnight and didn't even attempt picking up any due to my condition, only danced my ass of (got alot of attention from it though, couple of girls came up and just started kissing me, got invited to some tables etc but I was too drunk to want to talk with them)...

This is my first report since I don't find them very interesting to read but I wrote this one because it worked out so smoothly without any obvious DJing, thought or anything at all. This is how it normally happens for me the best... Many parties I've been in a room talking up the rounds etc, having fun then suddenly I meet some girl that sat there earlier on my way to the fridge or simular and she just starts kissing me, thinks like that. I normally never put anything into it.

Performance (Fun thing IMO)
BJ: 10 (Oh god did she rock at that)
HJ: 7 (abit rough before wetening it up)
Full out: 10 (She was amazing, commanding, full of energy and playfull).

Now if I show up again a thai massage with oils are awaiting

Regards
Kinetic Charm - [C]