"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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how this phone call go?

Snap87

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Sup. Got a question, if this phone call made me sound too desperate/needy. Ok it went like this...

Me:hey wassup how u doing?
Her:great, you?
Me:good, good, hey listen, you got any plans this weekend?
Her: yes
Me: Really? where you going?
her:going blablablabla with a friend
Me: (took a big sigh) alright
her: why?
me: i just thought ide come visit you for a while(just met her last week)
Her: (probaly felt pity for me, haha) oh hey you can come with us if u would like.
Me:alright that sounds good, what time should i come

ok, i got her to make me come, but just asking if this made me sound desperate/needy? I met her a week ago and she live 7 miles away from me. If it did, how should i of said it?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The Master Disaster

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That went pretty bad. What you should of said was this

Her: (probably felt pity for me, haha) oh hey you can come iwth us if you would like
Me: Thanks for the offer but I'll just hit up a party with some friends.

Still have time to cancel it with her and her friend.
Not to mention that would be akward.
 

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Well, u did alright!! Depends on how u got the game goin. If ur just a beginner then i guess that was good. 1) She asked u to come with them 2) she didnt lie and she didnt rejected u, she is showing sings of interest.
 

The Master Disaster

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shydude said:
Well, u did alright!! Depends on how u got the game goin. If ur just a beginner then i guess that was good. 1) She asked u to come with them 2) she didnt lie and she didnt rejected u, she is showing sings of interest.
but it was a pitty offer that he should not have accepted.
 

oakraiderz2

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The Master Disaster said:
That went pretty bad. What you should of said was this

Her: (probably felt pity for me, haha) oh hey you can come iwth us if you would like
Me: Thanks for the offer but I'll just hit up a party with some friends.
Where i come from, bragging about how youre going to a party make you gay...just say you have plans.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Master Disaster

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oakraiderz2 said:
Where i come from, bragging about how youre going to a party make you gay...just say you have plans.
To Men yes it is gay.

To Women it is "Say, that man is cool. I want to date him."
 

oakraiderz2

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The Master Disaster said:
To Men yes it is gay.

To Women it is "Say, that man is cool. I want to date him."
Tousche
 

Zerotwoonenine

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what a wuss boy. You really have to do better than that, try out the ****ey and funny techniques, also try to sound like a man. If you are only 15 then forget about it, but if you are like 17 then you have got to take the lead, you sounded like you were begging her, if shes busy then set up another time, or alternatively, sound like you dont care.
 
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