"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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how this phone call go?

Snap87

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Sup. Got a question, if this phone call made me sound too desperate/needy. Ok it went like this...

Me:hey wassup how u doing?
Her:great, you?
Me:good, good, hey listen, you got any plans this weekend?
Her: yes
Me: Really? where you going?
her:going blablablabla with a friend
Me: (took a big sigh) alright
her: why?
me: i just thought ide come visit you for a while(just met her last week)
Her: (probaly felt pity for me, haha) oh hey you can come with us if u would like.
Me:alright that sounds good, what time should i come

ok, i got her to make me come, but just asking if this made me sound desperate/needy? I met her a week ago and she live 7 miles away from me. If it did, how should i of said it?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Master Disaster

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That went pretty bad. What you should of said was this

Her: (probably felt pity for me, haha) oh hey you can come iwth us if you would like
Me: Thanks for the offer but I'll just hit up a party with some friends.

Still have time to cancel it with her and her friend.
Not to mention that would be akward.
 

shydude

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Well, u did alright!! Depends on how u got the game goin. If ur just a beginner then i guess that was good. 1) She asked u to come with them 2) she didnt lie and she didnt rejected u, she is showing sings of interest.
 

The Master Disaster

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shydude said:
Well, u did alright!! Depends on how u got the game goin. If ur just a beginner then i guess that was good. 1) She asked u to come with them 2) she didnt lie and she didnt rejected u, she is showing sings of interest.
but it was a pitty offer that he should not have accepted.
 

oakraiderz2

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The Master Disaster said:
That went pretty bad. What you should of said was this

Her: (probably felt pity for me, haha) oh hey you can come iwth us if you would like
Me: Thanks for the offer but I'll just hit up a party with some friends.
Where i come from, bragging about how youre going to a party make you gay...just say you have plans.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Master Disaster

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oakraiderz2 said:
Where i come from, bragging about how youre going to a party make you gay...just say you have plans.
To Men yes it is gay.

To Women it is "Say, that man is cool. I want to date him."
 

oakraiderz2

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The Master Disaster said:
To Men yes it is gay.

To Women it is "Say, that man is cool. I want to date him."
Tousche
 

Zerotwoonenine

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what a wuss boy. You really have to do better than that, try out the ****ey and funny techniques, also try to sound like a man. If you are only 15 then forget about it, but if you are like 17 then you have got to take the lead, you sounded like you were begging her, if shes busy then set up another time, or alternatively, sound like you dont care.
 
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