"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How the scales have moved - now a virgin maiden is shamed!

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http://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_facto...e_olympics_does_waiting_deserve_a_medal_.html

Apparently, an adult woman’s choice to remain a virgin is such bombshell news that it makes next-day headlines on People.com, the Los Angeles Times, and the Washington Post. As evidenced by an incredibly unfunny TMZ segment that implies the Olympian should be humiliated by her chastity, there’s certainly a stigma attached to being a virgin in your late 20s. Jones deserves praise because no doubt, her announcement made many others choosing to abstain from sex feel more confident in their decisions.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is Being a 29-Year-Old Virgin Really an Accomplishment?
Yes it is if you are hot enough to have sex yet decide not to do and stick to it.

Thats the basic rule that explain why a woman getting railed from the c0cks carouself cannot brag unlike a guy who screwed dozens of girls.

Its all a matter of doing something that you can easily do or doing something that is hard but you do it anyway.

While the opposite is true, a virgin girl can brag cause its her choice, a virgin guy cant cause its not (in most of the cases).
Yet girls and media seems to consider only the second part, the one about the virgin guy being a loser....wonder why eh?

So a girl can openly show disgust for a virgin guy but a guy is insecure/sexist/chauvinist/ nazi/ kkk/terrorist/alien if he dares to show no interest in long term relationships with the town wh0re.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
Yes it is if you are hot enough to have sex yet decide not to do and stick to it.

Thats the basic rule that explain why a woman getting railed from the c0cks carouself cannot brag unlike a guy who screwed dozens of girls.

Its all a matter of doing something that you can easily do or doing something that is hard but you do it anyway.

While the opposite is true, a virgin girl can brag cause its her choice, a virgin guy cant cause its not (in most of the cases).
Yet girls and media seems to consider only the second part, the one about the virgin guy being a loser....wonder why eh?

So a girl can openly show disgust for a virgin guy but a guy is insecure/sexist/chauvinist/ nazi/ kkk/terrorist/alien if he dares to show no interest in long term relationships with the town wh0re.
Good post. And it also goes to show you that the act of sex really isn't the end all be all of being an alpha male and attracting women. I'm guessing Tim Tebow doesn't have an issue with lining women up to sleep with them, if he so chose.
 

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Danger said:
What's interesting is that I never saw any shaming of Tim Tebow for being a virgin.

Are we only shaming women for being virgins and men are praised for it?
I think it is the situation that a man who *could* get pre-marital poontang, and chooses not to, like Tebow - or another religious NFL QB, Steve Young (Mormon) is considered a hero because he is choosing NOT to go for it - while the omega loser who cannot get such poon-tang (pre-marital, or marital), is considered as a loser for not having the ability, irregardless of that fact that he may be the type of person would would choose to not partake.

Along with this is the idea that these men who have the ability to get it, but do not, are the type of man that women would like to have as a faithful husband, as they are alpha enough to be able to get it in the first place - while the omega loser is not desired by women, and hence is heaped with scorn.
 

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Danger said:
I'm looking at it from a position of both being "desirables".

Tim Tebow being desired due to his money, athleticism, etc,...

Lori Jones is attractive and thus almost certainly desired by a large portion of men.



So, one we shame, and the other we celebrate. Why would this be?

Those shaming Lori Jones about being a virgin and principally other women. Think about it. I suspect it's good old fashioned competition anxiety kicking in and women minimizing another woman, a better woman, as a sexual challenger, even if they don't even know her or have zero risk of their men being taken away by her.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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All women hate other women.
 

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Firstly, the shaming we're talking about it media centric. Whether it derives from TMZ or facebook, that media is run to, for and about women and their fem-centric worldview.

Since the sluts realize that chastity is still a virtue to men that want to marry (MWM), they need to act like crabs and try and pull her back into the pot. SHame shame shame.

They can't shame tebow, because he is essentially outside of their sphere of control.
 
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