How the hell do you talk to a very introverted girl?

[jericg]

This is such an annoyance to me because I've met many introverted girls that I either got rejected from or friendzoned with. Now, I've met another one. She gave me her number a month ago and now that we see each other a lot in tennis, she seems to avoid me.

I had a chance to talk to her today, but she doesn't say much. I mocked her for being quiet and she didn't say a word or make eye contact. I use to feel that I am doing something wrong in these types of interactions, but I know now that its not me, that its just her being... introvert.

I thought that I should give up since I've just met other girls(more extroverted ones) during this summer but there's something about her... Its probably the challenge, but how does a DJ go about to attract introverted girls?

 

[RiceandChicken]

Well, I'd say try some ****y/funny man. See how that works for you. Give her the impression that you're a carefree dude.

 

[devilkingx2]

it seems like a lot of work but not a lot of reward,

I never bothered with this type of girl though

 

[Eph]

If she really is an introvert - which I seriously doubt she is - you've got to get her to feel comfortable. Being something of an introvert myself - though I probably talk a lot more than you're making it sound like she does - the best advice I can give you is to keep persisting. If she is interested in the slightest, she will eventually open up to you. If not - and in my opinion she seems disinterested - well at least you tried.

 

[jericg]

I'm really being patient here. I am afraid to step it up because I can easily screw it up. I really dont want to waste her by doing that. This is quite a challenge. I've previously faced 3 like her and I have failed all.

 

[jericg]

On one of those 3 girls, I've recently started talking to one again. Instead of being smily, loud and jokingly as I normally talk to any girl (did not work on her) I toned it down a bit. I communicated with her with a slight smile, smoother voice, listened well, and used more appropriate jokes. I could tell that she was giving me a chance, but before I could ask her anything, she already moved to another school. Well, toning your character down seemed to have worked.

 

[LearningSlowly]

Introverted girls want you to be loud and social to everyone else, then quiet and private with them. They want to imagine a relationship where you take them to a party and talk to everyone and keep them involved, then take them home and show them a sensitive side before/as you fvck. Also they really don't want you talking about them to anyone. Privacy is key.

 

[jericg]

There we go! Genius! In my experiences, that would make sense. I am an introvert myself, I'm always thinking about anything, watching people do their thing, without really saying much. It sucks, but when I talk, I talk a lot. Anyways, as much as I like that intimate 1on1 moment, I prefer to rather be talking to everyone. One problem I have with this is that I dont know how to break off of talking to everyone so I can single out with the girl, but I believe that you just approach with less energy. LearningSlowly never fails to give good advice.

 

[Jack Wealthy]

Be nice. She will eventually open up if you're just nice and safe. When she does you become a little bit flirty, then a little bit more flirty...

 

[Jack Wealthy]

Introverted girls want you to be loud and social to everyone else, then quiet and private with them. They want to imagine a relationship where you take them to a party and talk to everyone and keep them involved, then take them home and show them a sensitive side before/as you fvck. Also they really don't want you talking about them to anyone. Privacy is key.

Hammered it^

Be nice. She will eventually open up if you're just nice and safe. When she does you become a little bit flirty, then a little bit more flirty...