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How the hell do you put on cologne??

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ffar out
i was buying somec ologne today and flirting a little with the chick selling, and she started f**king laughing at me!

i tried to flip the script and ask her how she puts it on, but ended up bailing

so how do you put it on? i just spray a little on the front and back of my neck, no good??
 

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You don't want to put too much on and smell like a walking department store...

Of course the neck and wrists are good places. A good place I have found to be is a light amount right behind the ears. If you go out to a club or bar, chances are it will be pretty loud and if you are talking to girls, much of the time they will lean in and speak into your ear. A little behind the ear will give them a slight whiff of your stuff.
 

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onthepath said:
ffar out
i was buying somec ologne today and flirting a little with the chick selling, and she started f**king laughing at me!
You're in a bit of a compromised position when you're buying cologne; not exactly the best time to run your game. She's visually watching you take your time buying a form of pseudo crutch which might make her think that you believe that you're inadequate without it. No, i'm not saying don't use cologne, i'm just saying i'm not surprised your game didn't work in that very moment.

I use one squirt and it probably isn't enough, but I err on the side of not putting too much on.
 

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I never use any now but when i did i always stuck to one spray so i didn't overdo it.

What's people's opinions on whether to use cologne or not?
 

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i used to spray 1 spray on a wrist, then wipe both my wrists together. Then spray it on my wrist again, wipe together, then rub around your jugular area on neck. People will smell it when you get close and also if your sweating or nervous youll get a nice refreshing whiff since those 2 places get hot.
 

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Neck, wrists, behind ears. Sure to attract the attention any females close enough to get a sniff.
 

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Yeah you put it on the wrists and necks because those areas are the warmest exposed areas where the cologne can heat up and become more potent. I like to give two light(dispersed) sprays around my collarbone/neck and rub my wrists on those areas.
 

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SickAgain said:
Yeah you put it on the wrists and necks because those areas are the warmest exposed areas where the cologne can heat up and become more potent. I like to give two light(dispersed) sprays around my collarbone/neck and rub my wrists on those areas.
ah that seems smart, i might give that a go
 

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the ocrrect way to use cologne is to spray once on your wrist (from an inch away). rub your wrists togheter quickly then before the cologne dries rub the any non-dissolved cologne on your neck.

when you just spray yourself, thats perfume.
 

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No, rubbing can negatively affect the scent. You should never rub with cologne that has an atomizer. Splash bottles you just, well, splash it on.
 

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No, rubbing can negatively affect the scent. You should never rub with cologne that has an atomizer. Splash bottles you just, well, splash it on.
so with an atomiser, if you're to reach multiple areas like both wrists and neck and possibly behind the ears yo uhave to keep spraying? surely that's overkill
 

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No, the idea is you don't need to. Pick one or two places and spray it on. It shouldn't need to cover every inch of your skin. Some people recommend the wrists, personally I don't put it there. One spray to the front of the neck and one on the back does the trick for me, depending on what scent I'm using.
 

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She's laughing at you because your buying cologne. There is only one reason guys buy cologne. It's funny for her.
 

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Spray it into thin air and walk underneath it.
 

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Theres a diference between buying cologne and using it..

TO SELECT A GOOD ONE:
1. Try only a few your interested in.. like 3
2. dont ware them on just spray em in a piece of paper or something and smell 5 inches away
3. take brakes between smellin. smelling coffee works to neutralize.

USING IT
Id recommend wearing it in:
1. the back of your ears: when you cheek-kiss girls being introduced to you (here we do it) theyll instantly smell and rememer you.
2. your neck: if hugging kissing or speaking close, shell get it.
3. A bit in your hands: its not a bad idea if you holding her or playing with her hair.. in fact i think its good to leave a bit of your smell in her body if touching.

- Im kinda new here so im gonna say somn else: it is a good idea to read and reply posts: because it kinda unlocks good ideas as long as 1 thyre good and 2 ill use em -

Hope this was helpfull
 
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