"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How the game changes based on your looks

DanelMadr

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chickenlegs03 said:
This whole good-looking thing is an excuse for your laziness, and your ego getting the best of you and your self-esteem...all jumbled together. I was there only a short while ago...Snap out of it guys, and get out in the field. Don't ever expect anything to just fall in your lap. Make things happen.
I totally agree. It's laziness and insecurity most of the time.

On the other hand, game is sort of different for different type of guys. And good looking guys are disorientated because HB6s hit on them all the time but HB9s seem uneffected. And you add some envy from other guys and some frustration from girls and you have a pretty difficult situation. So dont blame them.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bvbidd

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Stop with this I'm too good-looking thing.

It's YOUR problem. If they really thought you were attractive they would hit on you or at least make it REALLY REALLY obvious they are attracted whether they do it on purpose or not.

If they do neither they DO NOT like you and YOU are ugly. Your brainwashing yourself into thinking otherwise.

Your probally just around average and if your a cool guy and get em horny it won't matter.
 

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Bvbidd said:
If they really thought you were attractive they would hit on you or at least make it REALLY REALLY obvious they are attracted whether they do it on purpose or not.

If they do neither they DO NOT like you and YOU are ugly. Your brainwashing yourself into thinking otherwise.
yet another gem...lol
 

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Good looks protrays some social value, which is valuable. Obviously.

Who do you think a girl will pick if its a choice between a guy with no social proof or value? The better looking guy.

Of course, thats why you portray your personality!

Anyone who thinks looks don't matter, obviously doesn't know women. Looks matter, just not as much as you think. Social proof is much more valuable...
 
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