"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How the game changes based on your looks

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DanelMadr

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chickenlegs03 said:
This whole good-looking thing is an excuse for your laziness, and your ego getting the best of you and your self-esteem...all jumbled together. I was there only a short while ago...Snap out of it guys, and get out in the field. Don't ever expect anything to just fall in your lap. Make things happen.
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I totally agree. It's laziness and insecurity most of the time.

On the other hand, game is sort of different for different type of guys. And good looking guys are disorientated because HB6s hit on them all the time but HB9s seem uneffected. And you add some envy from other guys and some frustration from girls and you have a pretty difficult situation. So dont blame them.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Stop with this I'm too good-looking thing.

It's YOUR problem. If they really thought you were attractive they would hit on you or at least make it REALLY REALLY obvious they are attracted whether they do it on purpose or not.

If they do neither they DO NOT like you and YOU are ugly. Your brainwashing yourself into thinking otherwise.

Your probally just around average and if your a cool guy and get em horny it won't matter.
 
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Bvbidd said:
If they really thought you were attractive they would hit on you or at least make it REALLY REALLY obvious they are attracted whether they do it on purpose or not.

If they do neither they DO NOT like you and YOU are ugly. Your brainwashing yourself into thinking otherwise.
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yet another gem...lol
 
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Good looks protrays some social value, which is valuable. Obviously.

Who do you think a girl will pick if its a choice between a guy with no social proof or value? The better looking guy.

Of course, thats why you portray your personality!

Anyone who thinks looks don't matter, obviously doesn't know women. Looks matter, just not as much as you think. Social proof is much more valuable...
 
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