How the BOLLOCKS do you build a social circle in a NEW UNKNOWN High School?

[P­ornography]

Hey my fellow Sosuavers what crackin.' My name is Porno and I'm switching schools to a PRIVATE CATHOLIC High School in the Fall. Generally these schools are filled with freak-ass religious b!tches. Doesn't start till Fall, so I've got time to prepare, maybe help out with Summer School over the summer or something I don't know. I really know nothing about building social circles in general, other than saying hi and being my overall friendly/chatty-self. I mean is this enough? I'm a pretty funny guy. I can joke in class, or get the teacher's respect while paying attention, etc. But is this enough?

I will be completely new to this school for my Senior year. Some of you guys say 'man fcuk HS it's gay' and some of you say it's easy to string social circles.


My question is for the "popular" kids in HS, what clubs did you join? Sports? I've never played on a team, but I've always liked Soccer so I'm joining a summer league/camp to train for the HS team. I will be a Senior, which ups my status a little. But what clubs do you recommend??! Never joined those either. I notice that other guys who transfer from out of area seem to string along social circle incredibly quickly.

I will NOT be a nerd/loner my last year of High School.

I've already decided. I've lurked at this sight for about 5 months now. I will Sosuave-it-up in this school so f­ucking hard they won't know what hit em.' I am going OUT WITH A BANG. I will rail every LAST F­­UCKING CHRISTIAN ass in this school if it kills me. I don't care that they're probably religious snobs with sticks up their asses.


Ok, not really but my goal is to gain friends for life, go to crazy parties, get awesome grades and be a cool-ass person to hang out with. It will take more than saying Hi and having a nice attitude, for HS, so my questions is for the people the thrived in HS. How did you do it?

My current Goals for this are:

- Get a car
- Join 1 or more Clubs
- Make the Soccer team (preferably Varsity I saw their JV team is all Freshman -_-)
- Say hi to every damn person in that crazy religious school and make it seem like I'd been going there since Freshman year


Thank you Sosuave!

deuces

 

[NorwegianDJ]

This: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=180552
Twice.

How big is the school?
And dude, your name is Porno, and you're gonna attend a catholic school. Thats some guaranteed rep right there. You got an easy name to spread.
Yeah, the post pretty much sums it all up.

 

[Amo]

Huh, and I was under the impression that the girls in the private Catholic schools were secretly wilder.

 

[NorwegianDJ]

Huh, and I was under the impression that the girls in the private Catholic schools were secretly wilder.

Guess we have to wait for him to get in to figure that out.
I know girls from a catholic school here in CT. They aren't any wilder than other chicks, but then again, some chicks here in CT are quite wild

 

[P­ornography]

This: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=180552
Twice.

How big is the school?
And dude, your name is Porno, and you're gonna attend a catholic school. Thats some guaranteed rep right there. You got an easy name to spread.
Yeah, the post pretty much sums it all up.

Yeah. Sorry about that, my computer is always glitching up so that my threads and posts don't show up, it leads to a lot of double posts/duplicate threads. = /

Tell how you got rep, having been named after a country haha. Your journal makes it pretty obvious you're an all around cool guy, but I'm sure you took up weighttraining or something social right?

I saw you use Facebook a lot, and really well if you know what I mean. I'll have to hone my skills in that regard!! Haha

Huh, and I was under the impression that the girls in the private Catholic schools were secretly wilder.

Me too. I'm sure like NorwegianDJ said it doesn't matter too much, but I'm part of quite a few religious clubs and help out at my church; all the girls seem really mischevious there, to me at least. Could be different for others. But I can roll with it!!

Oh and NWJ, I believe the school holds roughyl 1000 students, so I'll definitely have to join a club or sport if I want to get heard.

 

[Amo]

If I had to make a wild guess, I'd say that girls in the stricter religious clubs and schools are usually there because of their parents and religious upbringing. Because they grow up in this environment, teenage hormones make them want to rebel from it. Hence the wild Catholic girls.

Don't take me wrong though, I don't hate religion or anything. I'm a practicing muslim.

 

[P­ornography]

If I had to make a wild guess, I'd say that girls in the stricter religious clubs and schools are usually there because of their parents and religious upbringing. Because they grow up in this environment, teenage hormones make them want to rebel from it. Hence the wild Catholic girls.

Don't take me wrong though, I don't hate religion or anything. I'm a practicing muslim.

Yup. You got it! I mean I'm not a licensed psychologist or anything but I'm pretty sure that's where it comes from, so much oppression that those girls naturally want to break out their sexuality.

But then again, all HS girls at Catholic schools are forced to wear a certain type of formal wear that allows them to flaunt their sexuality too.....moreso than public school in some cases.

 

[twixt]

who says that you need to do anything of the kind, hmmm?

Why just ACCEPT such a bs premise in the first place? High School is MEANINGLESS, dudes. It's just something that you suffer thru until you can join the military, go into college, or start learning something that MEANS something.

 

[Amo]

But then again, all HS girls at Catholic schools are forced to wear a certain type of formal wear that allows them to flaunt their sexuality too.....moreso than public school in some cases.

Ahahahahaha, most uniforms don't actually look like that. I go to a relatively lax private high school and the uniform's a bit stricter than that. Most of the girls don't really look nearly that hot/sexual/slutty. Keyword being most.

Why just ACCEPT such a bs premise in the first place? High School is MEANINGLESS, dudes. It's just something that you suffer thru until you can join the military, go into college, or start learning something that MEANS something.

I dunno if high school was a bitter memory for you or something, but why should he suffer? If he can easily make it much more enjoyable for himself, I can't see why he wouldn't. And high school is important, moreso socially than educationally - it teaches you a lot of social basic interactions, like dating. Most of the people who are over there in the main discussion forum were huge nerds or geeks or losers or whatever in high school, so they never formed their interactions properly, and they never got experience or the confidence that comes with it.

High school is a lot more important that people say it is.

 

[Gears of Led Zep]

Why just ACCEPT such a bs premise in the first place? High School is MEANINGLESS, dudes. It's just something that you suffer thru until you can join the military, go into college, or start learning something that MEANS something.

You must have gotten canned quite often in HS, and I'm guessing you were the guy that listened to Pink Floyd and hung out with the weird emo chicks, then in Senior year, started smoking cigarettes and thought you were cool.

Just cause you qewr a WEIRD loser dont mean others have to suffer the same crappy attitude you did

 

[BPH]

What exactly did Norwegian do through Facebook that you talk about?

I must have missed it in the journal

 

[NorwegianDJ]

What exactly did Norwegian do through Facebook that you talk about?

I must have missed it in the journal

I dont use facebook much, but I definately use it.
We're talking an occational chat, social proof, fixing a meet-up and so forth. Basicly I just maintain and increase attraction over fb. I think its much more useful in our age, as girls get attracted easier over facebook than when they are older (I think).

How I use it? I can provide some examples and stuff. I comment on stuff however I please, its often funny and blunt. I chat with girls I wanna hook up with, while either aiming for increasing attraction or going for a meet-up. I do this by doing exactly the same stuff you would've done in real life / text. Roleplay, normal stuff, IOIs, IODs, push pull, giving her validation, qualifying and so forth. It flows very naturally.

Currently I havent had a real status in a month (apart from one I added yesterday. I dont have anything on my about me thing, no bands, no likes and so forth. I think I will add all of that before I enter college tho, as it'll help there.

Recent examples:
Status: Women are deep.
Comment: Girls just want to be bent over
Comment: Cupcakes are creepy. Thats why you must bring your BATTLEAXE!
Ahaha, I forgot to mention this in my journal. My friend sherminator and me are having a party next week, and I sent this message to the (over 1000) people in the event, after sherminator had sent a message saying that freshmen couldnt come: "Sherminator forgot to say that freshmen girls that are hot and have big personalities can enter. "
Big personalities as in tits btw. Hahahhaha, epicness. I recieved a bit of hate for that one.
Comment: parties are always full of guys, cause girls just stay home and masturbate

That was all the bad examples I could assemble. Seems like I do all the good stuff on chat. Skim thru my journal for more stuff.

 

[kingkaba]

You must have gotten canned quite often in HS, and I'm guessing you were the guy that listened to Pink Floyd and hung out with the weird emo chicks, then in Senior year, started smoking cigarettes and thought you were cool.

Just cause you qewr a WEIRD loser dont mean others have to suffer the same crappy attitude you did

Try not to make grand assumptions about a person you've never met off a single statement it makes you look incomparably ignorant. Some men aren't insecure little women who cut themselves in the absence of friends. Theres a large difference between a social outcast and an individual who realizes how trivial high school is. This is not to say you shouldn't enjoy yourself. I just posted this to address fools like the one quoted.

 

[kingkaba]

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[P­ornography]

Ok norwegian I don't really understand that part about Facebook. Do you start wall posts about those things? Or reply to them. You seem like you dominate pretty well on Facebook though, even though you say you scarcely use it. I think my Facebook game is pretty fine ---cool and indifferent.

But seriously no one has any tips for prospering in High School? The DJ High School Bible is NOT as refined as the normal one---all it talks about is "gaming in HS" ......"you use different rules in HS"


Well I'm not talking about f/cking girls here; I am talking about making friends, thriving and having a good time in High School. I wish I could use the awesome college advice threads but the fact is College is vastly different from the High School atmosphere, which at times is pretty superficial.



So please, people who kicked ass in HS I need your advice.