"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How tell if she is a slut...

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I don't want to be ONE of the guys a women is having sex with.

I am COOL with a woman going out with 2-3 guys on first or second dates to get to KNOW them. Making out is fine with me, I find it innocent.

I am NOT interested in women who are willing to have sex with me, another guy, third guy and THEN select one of us.

I am willing to be just friends with many women at this point just to learn from them so that I can TELL if a girl is a slut.

You guys know that if you do not make moves early enough then you lose, but if you do make moves and get her in bed and then LEARN she is a slut then I would personally REGRET IT.


MANY, I swear, MANY MANY girls...those who dress sexy and those who are sitting in the back of the room with thick glasses are real sluts.

I'm not screwing sluts, regardless of how hot they are...so please, teach me how to tell if a girl is a slut EARLY ON.

P.S. People lie, girls are good at hiding it...it only makes it harder.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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thats why you must be a fcvking player...yes learn how to be a player...the rest of them comes to on your plate..

good luck
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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when she goes to the bathroom, look in her purse, if you see a pair of thongs , shes a slvt.
 

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Easiest way for me to tell is how fast I can get in their pants. First date = slvt.
 

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^^^ what he said...or if i befriend one of her friends i smooth talk my way into finding whatever i want out.
 

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Not necessarily. I got into the pants of one of the girls I'm seeing now on the first date and she's not a slut. I just ran solid game on her and the results ended up positive.

The best way to see if a girl is a slvt or not is to let them blab about their past relationships, which I'm sure many guys don't do, before you sleep with them or find out through one of their close friends if you're not good at intepreting womaneise. The signs are there if you know what you're looking for.
 

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I think the same way. I can't stand sluts!

Generally, I just spend a bit of time getting to know them and screening them before I get involved. I'll ask if they've had many past boyfriends, and most women are eager to share.

What I find is that sluts are quite quick to brag about their exploits and talk about what they're willing to do. They try to use their sexuality to lure in a guy. So as long as you don't tell her you dislike sluts, she'll probably reveal her true colours.

Girls with higher standards and self-respect is more likely to express it early on because they don't want guys taking advantage and ditching them.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Babnik said:
I'm not screwing sluts, regardless of how hot they are...so please, teach me how to tell if a girl is a slut EARLY ON.

P.S. People lie, girls are good at hiding it...it only makes it harder.

You sounding retarded right and it shows you have no clue about actually getting girls. If you've never skimmed or read Nancy Fridays: My secret garden, then you really are in for big surprise. From your biggest party girl to the nerdy librarian. They all think about it and actually have some crazy fantasties.

After being in the game for awhile I realized you can get ANY girl to do a 3some, give head, take it up the ass, etc. One thing a lot of guys don't realize is that it doesn't take long to lay ANY girl.

You heard it right EVERY GIRL can get fuvked by you within the first or second meeting. It's rare that it takes 3 days. You just have to know how. (Which is basically stuff learned in this community.) Why do you think people say Day 2s, its rare you hear anyone say Day 3s.

So as you sit there waiting months to have sex, she is getting slammed by some other guy who met her in 2 days. If you notice most of the PUA stuff doesn't put anything in a dating frame or bf/gf frame, because thats what fuvks a lot of people and and they end up waiting for sex when sex isn't some big ritual.

This is why I could never understand how some people in the community can call girls sluts (Unless your dirty talking to her in the bedroom) because you can lay any girl quickly and you can get them to do anything in bed, it just all comes down to "Do you know how to".

Two perfect examples in my life is 2hbs I know they both clamed they would never give head a day in there life. A friend of mine fuvked one of them and didn't get no head, just pure fuvking. (Boring) Note both these girls would say giving head is nasty, disgusting, and slutty. So what have I experienced with both.
- Were roleplaying she talks about dressing up for me and I fuvk her in her costume
- Semi isolated with friends were roleplaying again talking about how when se comes from work she is going to suck me off and I'm going to unload on her face. (She was loving this) Then a friend over here her saying big... and then when he starts saying "What you just said..." she acts like we weren't talking about sex
- I playfully tell her I'd pull my divk out and shove it in her mouth and she says "Do it then, you always say it and never do it" (To bad I never did do it)
- Other girl told her to come to my strip show and how I'd pull down my pants and make my beef hit her in her chin then start slapping her in the face.

All in all these girls know I don't judge them for sex so they know they can talk about it without being thought of as a slut. Up to this day when I'm with friends and they ask them about giving head they both say no. But I know the real story.
 

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^ ^ I like when I see people that actually know what they are talking about...

EVERY GIRL LOVES SEX. If there were no social norms or pressures, you could lay ANY and EVERY girl first night without a hitch. I fvcked my current gf the second date, we went to eat first night, second night I said "movie my place?" and done, she's not a slvt... she just enjoys sex...

My oneitis girl used to tell me how she'd give head and her methods, her friend used to accuse her of being mean and said she needed to give at least 20 minutes so the guy could bust. A girl or another guy would walk over while we're talking and they'd act as innocent as possible, no one knows that these two girls are sooo sexual, only the people getting laid know what's up...

All in all these girls know I don't judge them for sex so they know they can talk about it without being thought of as a slut. Up to this day when I'm with friends and they ask them about giving head they both say no. But I know the real story.
DeJavU



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Cod3r said:
EVERY GIRL LOVES SEX. If there were no social norms or pressures, you could lay ANY and EVERY girl first night without a hitch.
Not necessarily. I've met girls who don't like sex. They like to feel emotionally close to a man, and do it to satisfy him, but they don't actually experience pleasure from it.

To some men and women sex just isn't that important...hence why some people live a life of celibacy or choose religion over sex. I've met some asexual people who argue that sexual instincts and emotion are weaknesses and a hinderance on intellectual growth.

I am talking about extreme examples here, but for a lot of normal people personal value and dignity ranks a lot higher than sexual fulfillment and would not act like sluts at any cost.
 

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I have no trouble banging a slut.. but the thought of her just throwing herself at anyone bothers me.. i want a challenge.. I wanna know at least she was a challenge to get.. I wanna be rejected once in a while.. having girls being thrown at you destroys the whole purpose of sosuave..
 

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I wanna be rejected once in a while.. having girls being thrown at you destroys the whole purpose of sosuave..
Classic


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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i don't see a problem with sluts. I've said this time and time again but its this "search" for a pure gf thats putting all the power in the woman's hands. I'd far rather going out with a decent looking drama free slut than a high maintenance good looking girl who's had few partners.

Theres a lot of posts on this site about handling such girls. However, imo at the end of the day, that must be such a pain in the ass. A girlfriend is supposed to add to your life, not be a nuisance.
 

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Distant Light said:
You sounding retarded right and it shows you have no clue about actually getting girls. If you've never skimmed or read Nancy Fridays: My secret garden, then you really are in for big surprise. From your biggest party girl to the nerdy librarian. They all think about it and actually have some crazy fantasties.

After being in the game for awhile I realized you can get ANY girl to do a 3some, give head, take it up the ass, etc. One thing a lot of guys don't realize is that it doesn't take long to lay ANY girl.

You heard it right EVERY GIRL can get fuvked by you within the first or second meeting. It's rare that it takes 3 days. You just have to know how. (Which is basically stuff learned in this community.) Why do you think people say Day 2s, its rare you hear anyone say Day 3s.

So as you sit there waiting months to have sex, she is getting slammed by some other guy who met her in 2 days. If you notice most of the PUA stuff doesn't put anything in a dating frame or bf/gf frame, because thats what fuvks a lot of people and and they end up waiting for sex when sex isn't some big ritual.

This is why I could never understand how some people in the community can call girls sluts (Unless your dirty talking to her in the bedroom) because you can lay any girl quickly and you can get them to do anything in bed, it just all comes down to "Do you know how to".

Two perfect examples in my life is 2hbs I know they both clamed they would never give head a day in there life. A friend of mine fuvked one of them and didn't get no head, just pure fuvking. (Boring) Note both these girls would say giving head is nasty, disgusting, and slutty. So what have I experienced with both.
- Were roleplaying she talks about dressing up for me and I fuvk her in her costume
- Semi isolated with friends were roleplaying again talking about how when se comes from work she is going to suck me off and I'm going to unload on her face. (She was loving this) Then a friend over here her saying big... and then when he starts saying "What you just said..." she acts like we weren't talking about sex
- I playfully tell her I'd pull my divk out and shove it in her mouth and she says "Do it then, you always say it and never do it" (To bad I never did do it)
- Other girl told her to come to my strip show and how I'd pull down my pants and make my beef hit her in her chin then start slapping her in the face.

All in all these girls know I don't judge them for sex so they know they can talk about it without being thought of as a slut. Up to this day when I'm with friends and they ask them about giving head they both say no. But I know the real story.

Every girl wants sex, but some girls DO have more self respect than to screw a guy she knew a few days. Like, PERSONAL (not social) respect.

People DO know about STDs and AIDS as well.
I'm a guy and I have self respect as well. I would not sleep with a slut if she was naked in front of me. Call me stupid, but I really would not IF I knew she was a slut and has been with many men.

I believe hard to get girls TEND to be quality ones. They flirt and play back and this way guys that are looking for easy p*ssy simply flake or NEXT a girl.
Where, a good persistent guy would be the one who gets her. Thats how the only real GF I had was like. All other girls went easy, but wanted no commitment and it was all short.
 

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Remulak said:
girls who say "I don't like girls, that's why most of my friends are guys" They're either an AW or a slut
Yep this guy knows what he is talking about. This is one big sign of either AW or slut i found out firsthand.

Also AW are girls that are scared to be slvts. Anyone else also believe this as strongly as I do??
 

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Yep this guy knows what he is talking about. This is one big sign of either AW or slut i found out firsthand.

Also AW are girls that are scared to be slvts. Anyone else also believe this as strongly as I do??

yes

i agree with girls w/lots of guy friends are aws or sluts, but if you are saying aws wish they could be sluts but afraid i think you're wrong, they suffer or feel uncomfortable when they are not the center of attention. they need the attention from guys, not sex.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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