"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how tall is to tall?

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we all know that chicks are naturally attracted to tall men but is 6ft10 too tall? allthough i get woman (no way near as many as id like) ive always struggled dealing with woman and people for that matter with the same old bone obvious statements like "your tall" and boring statements like "hows the weather up there" and people (amog)genrally trying to knock you down a pegg or two for it. if theres any tall djs out there and you get this aswell would be helpful to hear some expiriences.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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yes, you are too tall. you are destined to live your life completely alone because of your height.
 

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oxford comma said:
yes, you are too tall. you are destined to live your life completely alone because of your height.
bore off
 

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sorry, but its frustrating how annoying this forum is. do you guys even read the articles on this site??? theres NO SUCH THING as too tall, thats just your own insecurities keeping you from getting the girls that you want. be a man, if someone says you are too tall, that should be your cue to realize its just them trying to cut you down to allow them to feel temporarily better about themselves. as a man, its your job to be self actualized. what other people say and think about you has no effect on your life.
 

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Bro, tallness does not hurt lol. You can play around more, I'm 6 feet and I fireman carry girls around as a way of flirting lol. You are 10 feet taller, use it to your advantage.

A guy with your height is unique, rock it out dude.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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to the OP what exactly are you looking for wit this thread?

what if everyone here replied "yes, you are too tall".

what if everone here replied "no, you arent too tall".

oxford comma basically hit the nail on the head when he jokingly replied that yes you are destined to live alone forever.


obviously, you dont believe him because you told him to "bore off". so why waste your time asking this in the first place? theres nothing you can do about your height anyways.

what if i made a thread that asked "im only 3ft tall, is that too short?".
 

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I'm 6'3" and have dealt with the "your tall" comments and jokes all my life. Trust me, being tall is a good thing. I'd rather be your height than unusually short.

It's a fact chicks dig tall guys, and any dude knocking you is jealous, and more than likely a chick making a comment on it is showing interest.
 

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6' 4", anything after that is pushing it, especially with shorter women. Really tall people have tendencies to have unproportionate limbs and bodies in general. You have advantage at dating really tall women like over 6 feet, but I ve known a only a handful of these.
 

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PapiChulo said:
6' 4", anything after that is pushing it, especially with shorter women. Really tall people have tendencies to have unproportionate limbs and bodies in general. You have advantage at dating really tall women like over 6 feet, but I ve known a only a handful of these.

shut up. ur just as bad as the original poster. being taller than 6'4" is "pushing it"? what is that supposed to mean? do the posters here just completely ignore the articles on this site and jump into the forums giving ****ty advice and asking retarded questions?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Its not the height that hurts your game with women, its only relying on your height that kills your chances with women. You have to be able to have a good mouthpiece with these chicks too.
 

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Im 6ft 5 and I understand where you are coming from, but the advatages outweigh the negatives by far. You don't have to worry about a girl being taller than you, I can't imagin how that must feel. Girls can wear high heel in your precence where with shorter girls they can't. Trust me bro you are lucky. Just a piece of advice keep your back straight, nothing looks worse than a slouched tall guy .
 

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Ask women what they think. The standard has always been above 6 to 6-4, the ideal height.
 

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im 6'4 girl says im tall i usualy say "i don't know if your tall enough for this ride" give her a wink and light kino and its on
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You could always go get rocked out at the gym and go after those HB9s who love the he-man types.. ha, there arent that many out there but they are always hot and will love your height.
 

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PapiChulo said:
Ask women what they think. The standard has always been above 6 to 6-4, the ideal height.

were you born retarded or did you have to work at it?
 

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wataf said:
im 6'4 girl says im tall i usualy say "i don't know if your tall enough for this ride" give her a wink and light kino and its on

nothing turns women on more than a man's inability to use the correct form of "you're".
 

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oxford comma said:
were you born retarded or did you have to work at it?
LOL, you are having a field day with this thread.

OP, garruk's post was exactly what I was thinking when I read the title of this, before even clicking in. What can anyone here say that changes anything?

"Yes, if I were you, I would work on shrinking"? Not only can nothing be done about this, every single girl is gonna have a different opinion of the situation, making it literally impossible for anyone here to give you an answer of any worth to you. The most you can get is similar experiences from other very tall men. Either way, nothing can be changed about it.

This is no different than the thread complaining how "white guys get all the girls", with the guy complaining about his ethnicity. I'll say the same thing I said to him: There are plenty of extremely tall guys getting girls with no problem, but they aren't the ones coming to a forum to complain about it.
 

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One of my good friends is 6ft 8in tall. He always has women
around him and he fuks like a jackrabbit. His height doesn't stop him so it shouldn't stop you. I'm 6'3 close to 6'4 and I don't have too many problems with girls either.it's your mind that's stopping you. Being tall has way too many advantages. I'd even tell girls I was a college and/or NBA player if I were you a ms looking for a ONS. ;)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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