Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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how tall are you: suggest me a good answer

joker79

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I'm chatting with this HB6 on Tinder and she came up with this question. I'm not gonna answer directly of course (i'm 6.3 by the way) but i'm keen to reply with something really ****y or ridicolous. She's assessing my value through my height and this is enough to next her. Any ideas or a good answer? tempted to say "was this your pickup line?"
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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CaptainSaveAh0

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Why do you care... are you going to marry or date her? or fVck her.. Maybe shes tall herself and doesn't want the guy to be shorter than her.

Don't analyse things so much with people from Tinder.. It's called the hooking up APP for a reason.
 

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Im the same height. I usually say "75 inches".
 

Starfvcks 64

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If you REALLY don't care tell her "i'm one of the shortest men in the world. check online"
I bet it gets an "lol" and she changes topic. Whenever I don't want to give an answer, I just give an obvious lie, or ignore.
Girls don't even care that I lie about dumb stuff like that - they just don't want to know i'm actually very short.

I'm 6'2 btw.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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joker79 said:
I'm chatting with this HB6 on Tinder and she came up with this question. I'm not gonna answer directly of course (i'm 6.3 by the way) but i'm keen to reply with something really ****y or ridicolous. She's assessing my value through my height and this is enough to next her. Any ideas or a good answer? tempted to say "was this your pickup line?"
First of all, life is too short to waste your time on 6'es, IMO. But if you insist...tell her your real height and then immediately ask how much she weighs. If she answers, ask if that's before or after dinner!
 

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A girl asked me this on OKCupid.

I replied with "5'9"

She said, "Oh wow I knew you were a giant! I am 4'11".

It's a win-lose situation. Be honest.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mike32ct said:
You're 6'3".... Tell her....

"I'm only 5-foot 15-inches."

Chicks can't do conversions. Let the height hore's hamster spin while she tries to figure it out lol.
Hahaha I can't wait to see how the chick responds to that
 

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SeymourCake said:
A girl asked me this on OKCupid.

I replied with "5'9"

She said, "Oh wow I knew you were a giant! I am 4'11".

It's a win-lose situation. Be honest.
Yea I guess the flipside is her insecurity about her own height.
She was asking you your height so she could tell you she was short, which must make her self conscious.
 

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Tell her as tall as the Eiffel Tower.
 

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Mike32ct said:
You're 6'3".... Tell her....

"I'm only 5-foot 15-inches."

Chicks can't do conversions. Let the height hore's hamster spin while she tries to figure it out lol.
dude... who are you dating that can't convert 5'15" to 6'3"?
 

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El Payaso said:
Tell her as tall as the Eiffel Tower.
Damn that's like eleven feet.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Starfvcks 64 said:
Damn that's like eleven feet.
Lol. It's 1063 feet tall.
 

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turn your height into a complex mathematical equation or something

6(x^2)/10 -5(i^2) = z

z is x after it goes through the equation(squared, times 6, divided by 10, plus 5)
x is your height in whatever measurement you want to use
 

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devilkingx2 said:
dude... who are you dating that can't convert 5'15" to 6'3"?
I'm in the Northeast where women think they so brilliant, but you can easily stump many of them with something like the above. She will probably figure it out, but there will be a delay, and the lights might dim momentarily lol.

"How tall are you?" = Please just tell me you are over six feet. Then I can move on to my questions about your job and car.
 

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That's exactly what I'm thinking Mike, already nexted her. Can't even thing to fvck a chick whose first question is "how tall are you"
 
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