"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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how subtle can a women approach be?

david90

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I was at a magazine rack reading one day and looked to my left and there was this girl who's leaning against the rack reading facing me instead of the rack. Is she trying to get my attention? I have no experience on how subtle women approach can be so I didn't know if she was giving me the green light or not.

What are some examples of subtle approach by women?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Fatality

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Say you're at school and you always notice a certain girl looking your way then one day she stops and asks you something like "what time is it?" This happened to me last semester. I think that is an example of a subtle approach. She just never actually asked me out. I think when she asked me for the time she was hoping that I would flirt with her and ask her out. Now just because a woman asks you a question I don't think it necessarily means she is interested but I did find out later that she did like me and that was her way of appraoching me.
 

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This is mental masterbation. She may or she may not .. we will never know .. you know why? Cuz you did not act on it.

Well next time when this happens to you (doubt it will) then you say .. "Excuse me, you do not need to pretend you are reading magazines!"

We'll know the answer by then ..
 

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They can be shy, so their "come ons" may be riduculously subte.

You can elliminate this problem by hitting on the every girl you like. ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ummm.... if a girl leans against a rack or is facing you , that pretty much means nothing.

Suble woman approaches ? starting up converstation is the main one for me.... they come to you and start up a conversation. Taken further if they suggest that you and her spend time together.... maybe class work, or hanging out or whatever. thats a very good sign. Also if she treats you differently in a better way, compared to other guys..... shes into you.

Stop reading soo much into it. i mean honestly....noticing a girl leaning against a rack and facing you. thats a little extreme.
 

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Who says you need a green light to approach? Learn to approach whoever you want whenever you want.
 
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