"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How soon to ask her to family event?

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adamw5963

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I've been on a couple of dates with this girl over the past few weeks. It has gone pretty well. No f close though. Anyways my lil bros bday party is this weekend. Should I ask her to it or is too soon?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Way too early. Close the deal. Spend a few weeks determining if she has any long term potential. Vet her (find out about her family, friends, background). Don't get this process reversed. You'll just confuse your family. They'll start making cute talk and touting her to you. It'll confuse you when you need to be clear and face facts.
 
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I have actually found with previous girlfriends or potential girlfriends IF their interest level is high beforehand bringing them to a family even actually raises their interest level through the roof IF you seem to have a good family and they get on well. I'm sure you can work out the reasons why.
 
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