How society used to view women and sex

[FatHairyM4F]

This is going to sound really weird, but because I never had the "birds & the bees" talk from my parents, or anyone for that matter, the first time I learned what really happens during sex was by reading my grandma's old Home Medical Journal from the 50s. Incidentally, years later when I told my mom this she said that's also how she learned about sex. I was about 13 at the time I started reading it.

Anyway, I remember the book saying that for the most part women had sex to please her man and that the man got much more pleasure from sex than did the woman. I also have heard that at one time a woman who seemed to enjoy sex (or at least admitted it) was commonly called a wh0re or a slvt.

My question is: I don't believe medicine knew THAT much less about the female anatomy than they do now, that they could ever really think that women get most of their pleasure from sex knowing that she's pleasing her man, and that's about it. I mean for instance the book mentioned the ****oris and how sensitive it was and how pleasurable it was to the woman when it was touched. They HAD to realize that women could (at least had the potential to) derive at least as much physical pleasure from sex as men. Did people ever really believe that women just did it because it was their "duty"?

How did that notion come to be, and how has it changed so much since then? Actually it probably would have been better for me if I had lived back then, because women were far more subservient and dependent on men, so they didn't have all these demands like they do now. And I probably could have had my pick from women back then, as long as I had my own place and had a car. I probably wouldn't even need to have a personality because I think society didn't consider it as important that women were happy in their relationships back then.

Well just thought I would throw that out there and see what you guys had to say about how things were then, and how different they are today, and how they got that way.

 

[ryannath]

That's just the way it was back then. Women who admitted to liking sex were called names, but even back then, women got just as much pleasure from sex than men did. Actually, I think women enjoy sex MORE than men. Just think about how women moan and groan when they are having sex. They do that way more loudly than men do. And, women can have multple orgasms in a sex session, and a man can not. Just thing of all of the sex toys they make for women. Women are sexual freaks that have been supressed for so long, and now they are realesing all of their pent up sexualty. No way were they having sex back then jus to "please" their man.

 

[DJDamage]

You sound as if you advocating women being superior then men when it comes to sex and i heard enough about this crap in the media. Men and women are different yes, but for every precieved weakness for one gender they make up for it on a different level. Both genders compliment one another and are not superior to one another.

Actually, I think women enjoy sex MORE than men

Men enjoy sex more in the end while women enjoy sex more during.

Just think about how women moan and groan when they are having sex. They do that way more loudly than men do.

Means nothing. Men are not women therefore a behaviour does not dictate their emotional state or physical pleasure. Women tend to be more emotional then men to the extreme, while men are more balanced.

And, women can have multple orgasms in a sex session, and a man can not. .

Men can have orgasm every time and women do not.

Just thing of all of the sex toys they make for women. .

Of coarse they will have more sex toys because their sexual organ's is on the inside as opposed to outside and its therefore more complicated and also harder for them to reach orgasm as a result. Unless the majority of the male population decides that it alright to stick things up their own asses you won't see a surge in sex toys for men because we don't need them and most of us are not gay.

Women are sexual freaks that have been supressed for so long, and now they are realesing all of their pent up sexualty. No way were they having sex back then jus to "please" their man.

Sexuality has been amplified because feminity and sexuality has been supressed over the years. Women had the same amount sex back then as today, just today its more in your face and visible because other aspects of sexuality is hidden.

 

[wayword]

Anyway, I remember the book saying that for the most part women had sex to please her man and that the man got much more pleasure from sex than did the woman. I also have heard that at one time a woman who seemed to enjoy sex (or at least admitted it) was commonly called a wh0re or a slvt.

And you disagree?

This is all generally true on average. Guys consistently get off from sex every time...wherea women don't except on a wing and a prayer.

Even when being drilled by a huge kawk in p0rn - you'll notice that when they really want to get off, they still have to reach down and rub their own c1it with their hand.

Why do you think women are on the supply-side in sex all over the world? Has this ever changed?

The 60s counterculture tried to reverse every bit of old knowledge that had held true for millenia...but we are now coming back full circle to realizing that most of it was simply right to begin with.

 

[PigAdlemPimp]

Woman don't really enjoy sex, they say they do because of what the media is telling them.
I've never seen a female Cow Sheep Cat Hen or any other breed of Animal that enjoyed being fvcked by the male of its kind.
Males enjoy sex, that is how they were created otherwise their would not be any living creatures on the Earth.
Woman pretend they enjoy sex, it is a lie, that just about everyone has fallen for.
If woman don't pretend they enjoy sex, they won't impress any of the men, so they have to make it seem like they do.
Most woman thinks all other woman enjoy sex, it is a lie that everyone wants to beleive, the TV and print media has created it.

 

[vorbis]

Woman don't really enjoy sex, they say they do because of what the media is telling them.
I've never seen a female Cow Sheep Cat Hen or any other breed of Animal that enjoyed being fvcked by the male of its kind.
Males enjoy sex, that is how they were created otherwise their would not be any living creatures on the Earth.
Woman pretend they enjoy sex, it is a lie, that just about everyone has fallen for.
If woman don't pretend they enjoy sex, they won't impress any of the men, so they have to make it seem like they do.
Most woman thinks all other woman enjoy sex, it is a lie that everyone wants to beleive, the TV and print media has created it.

Thats just pure rubbish. Most males of other species have little interest in sex outside mating. Look at a male dog. Unless the ***** is in heat, he has no sexual interest whatsoever. Humans are unique in having sex for pleasure, that goes for both men and women. Saying that women don't enjoy sex would make me doubt any advice you post.