"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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how should we close a group of girls in a non-Pu environment?

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For example the mall, you see a group of 5 girls sitting, or in Starbucks.

Let's say you have gamed them, and its time for the close. How would you guys number close your target? I mean, if this would be a club or bar, people should isolate the girl. But this is a coffeeshop. You just cant isolate your target just like that, can you?

So how should we close? SHould we ask for all of their numbers then? Id like to hear from you all....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There is a FR on how this is done. I will see if i can find it. 1 by Fash and one by shezzler.
 

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thanks dudes
 
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