How should/should I ask this girl to a dance.

[Yoko Kurama]

Hey whats up.

There is this girl I have know since last year's track season, I talked to her a little bit during track, it seemed like she liked me quite a bit because of how she spoke to me. Now just recently I have been talking to her. I don't have any classes with her, but I try to talk to her in the hallway when I get the chance. She is really nice to me, and for all I know she cares for me enough to speak to me well, and she is always so enthused, isn't it awesome to be talking to a person like that. She is highly motivated. Perky would be a good word. The last time I talked to her in the hallway was last week. Than also last week I talked to her at her Volleyball game.

Anyway, I wanted to go to the movies or Fright Fest with her last Sunday, but she already had plans with someone that day. Then she asked what I had going this week, I wasn't going to lie, i am pretty busy this week. So I kinda hinted into maybe next weekend or something.

Well not this weekend, but the weekend after is the Marine Corps. ball. I am not to sure whether or not I should ask her to it or not. I was going to for sure, but I wanted to go on at least one date or friend date before I asked just so we could get to know each other a lot better. I couldn't obviously, and I am not sure whether or not I have enough time to just go on a friend date before asking her to the dance. But I want to ask her ahead enough in time so she could make plans.

What do you think? Help please. By the way, I am being a DJ as possible, I am giving her plenty of space, also showing her I am busy and don't have a lot of time for her.

? Thanks in advance.

 

[intrextrovert]

What is the Marine Corps. ball? If it's a pretty normal dance (something a girl would like) definitely ask her to it. You'll get to know her a bunch, and stay sexual.

 

[Yoko Kurama]

Its normal dance, like homecoming dress wise. It is essentially a dance.

 

[Pdizzzzzzle]

If its like a formal, ask her soon. Nothing ticks a girl off more (ok, slight exaggeration) than not being able to go out to shop for her dress, make hair appointments, etc. If its informal (you dont need a date you just show up) dont ask her because youll look like a loser. Just dance with her there.

Assuming its a formal, Theres tons of creative things you could do. You could simply just walk up to her and ask her, do whatever you want. I have to say my personal favorite was when I wanted to do something different for when I asked this one girl to homecoming. I play guitar pretty well, so I wrote her a cheesy song. My singing's pretty bad and my voice cracked but I just smiled and went along with it. She was laughing so much she couldnt say no.

Basically anything that'll show you are a fun loving guy, who can joke around, will get you in. Don't go to extravagant though. Like I said before, simply asking her's sufficient. Try googling "funny ways to ask a girl to prom" or something if you need ideas.