Ok, here goes. I've been on this site for about 9 months now and ive improved dramaticlly, I normally do not have any problems with making moves having girls hang out with me (which lately i have not to lie) and idk just overall ive improved my dating life a whole lot. Now the situation I'm in is one i havn't been so great at, there is this very attractive girl ive been trying to work my game on. Shes very interesting outgoing funny not shy at all def. kind of girl I'm into. We talk a lot i called her for the first time last night for the first time things went well. She even really wants to hang out with me, and we are planning on it soon like this weekend soon. Now the only issue is she has a boyfriend, and because of that she seems like she is in kind of a loyality shell, for example when i negg certain kind of jokes on her like when we was talking bout getting in her hot tub i was like have you ever done it in a hot tub and she was like no and i told her we should (shes very sexual in a way too) and she responded lol idk mabey, haha jk jk. And then for another example i tell her i need a neck massage she should help me out and shes like no never , haha jk jk jk. And her responses like that kind of have me confused, now i am suppost to go to her house or something like that this weekend and I'm not sure if i should try and make any moves if so how i would go about that because of the b/f situation. and if not what should i do about this whole cluster**** im in lol so please someone who has been in this situation or something like this or someone that can give great advice help me out on this one.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
How should i take advantage of this?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
just so suave
Senior Don Juan
hmm tricky...before u make any moves on her, try some kino and see how she responds to it. if the kinos working then go on to do the kiss test, and see how things go from there. if she responds negatively to the kino, try it again after about 30minutes, and if she responds negatively again, id leave it at that until shes out of her relationship, and pick up things from there 
I've been in a situation like this before, it seems like girls in relationships are always the most flirty...
Anyway, is it just going to be you and her hanging out? If it's just the two of you at her house she definitely wants you. As for what you should do, well that's really up to you. Personally if a girl is in a relationship I'll casually flirt but not pursue anything.
Anyway, is it just going to be you and her hanging out? If it's just the two of you at her house she definitely wants you. As for what you should do, well that's really up to you. Personally if a girl is in a relationship I'll casually flirt but not pursue anything.
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IMO, imagine if you were the guy who's girl was about to be stolen, what anger, bitterness, and contempt you would feel, the pain, the shock. I don't recommend making a move if you know for a fact she's happy and in a good relationship. If she is unhappy and you know she's looking for someone else, try it, but otherwise think about the person on the other end.
Lol whenever a guy posts here saying someone else is making moves on his GF everyone says "what a loser!! beat him up!!" etc etc but when someone wants to take a gf everyones like "w00t ur leetsauce!! that girls BF is such a loser if she wants u then take her!!"
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
What the hell have you been reading? That isn't anything constructive but spam. :nono:DamHE said:
To get back on track i'm almost in the same situation. This girl is always triing to talk to me but whenever she sees me in school she acts shy (because she dosn't want to have her bf spot us). I havn't got her number yet but will get it the next time I see her out of school. I'm going to play it slow because there relation ship seems really happy. But When he leaves her I will be next in line.:woo: