How should I respond to this e-mail from girl after 1st date?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

PuertoRican_Lover

Banned

Dec 26, 2004

Originally posted by skinnydart
... i really got to learn more about you and i find you very interesting __________________

* what the heck does she mean by this?

I know some people say never tell a girl that you've had a good time but should I reciprocate in my responce? I was thinking making fun somehow of the whole running off the road thing but I need some ideas of what to say or if I should even respond.

No woman wants to "learn" about a man she doesn't like - be a man and pursue that which is yourrs!!!! Suffice it to say that she likes you!!!

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.