"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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LostAndConfused

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Hey guys, this is about that same girl again, I took her out on a movie date at first, she doesn't want to do the date I suggested....instead she wants to see another movie. I know being the "man" and all I'm supposed to lead, but if she really doesn't wanna do it then she'll probably just flake if I keep pressing.

What should I do?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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MCristo

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She's not going to flake on you she clearly wants to go on a date. Just tell her that you'd like to get out and do something else other than a movie this time. She'll come along.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Deacon

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For a second date, do something that plays on your strengths. Do you ice skate? Go ice skating. If she doesn't know how to do it, you can playfully cajole her into coming with you and teach her how to ice skate. That's like, flirt-o-rama right there.

Another alternative would be ballroom dance. Do you know some of the cha-cha? That's a pretty flirty dance.
 
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