how should i react.....

[In2theGame]

Well its been interesting to say the least, i dont know if i should think positive or negative about the last couple of days. I posted before about how my friends seem like they hatin on me and stuff and its gettin worse. 3 days ago we went to a bar with friends and they have been after this bartender and havent been able to mess with her and at the end of the night i ended up getting busy with her and when we all went home, they all were shutting me down how she must be a big slut or how they dont believe i got busy with her. Im like whatever man. Im a good lookin guy and i get attention but i keep gettin negged by my own friends. Now, this girl that i messed with and fked and she has been on me like crazy, we got into a small argument and i hung up on her. Now , not only is she doggin me out on facebook, she sent a message to my best friend took hook up with him behind my back, so my best friend fkkin the girl i was just messin with. How should i feel or react to this? This girl i feel is tryin to get me back by goin after my best friend. sorry for the messed up spelling if any, im on mobile.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Your "friends" aren't truly your friends.

Find new ones who support you and HELP you; not ones who bring you down.






PIMP

 

[In2theGame]

Your "friends" aren't truly your friends.

Find new ones who support you and HELP you; not ones who bring you down.






PIMP

Yeah i understand, one of them is my long time friend of 15 years and we have always been very close.

 

[In2theGame]

I just got home, and this is what happened before i left my friends house. I confronted him, on it and not to hide it from me, he didnt know what to say and he told me the girl messaged him. I left it at that, i started packing up some of my stuff to leave but not in a pissed off way, just getting my things ready to drive home because theres no reason for me to stick around. Here i am getting ready to leave and hes about to go bang the girl i was talking to. I felt weird about that because i know he would be pissed off if i did it to him. She had been begging me to go be with her everyday for 2 months, and i got to chill with her few times and she was always close to me, making out, sitting on my lap and then i F**ked her all night. Once i banged her, she was hooked calling me everyday to go see her and since i live far from her it was difficult to do. she admitted to having feelings for me but was afraid of getting hurt and accusing me of having girls on the side or whatever. few days ago i was busy and didnt call her or message her all day, when i did call her the next day she gave me an attitude right away and said i didnt really care about her or i didnt miss her so she said i dont care anymore. I hung up on her. Then a random number calls my phone at night and a guy acting like her BF tried starting an argument with me (it was her brother), i ignored it and said im not talkin to her, She was probably telling him to call me to try to piss me off or get me jealous. The next day she messages my friend to flirt he told me and now trying to hit me where it would actually bother me, banging my best friend and even more so, bothered by the fact that my best friend hides it from me and went tonight to F***k her. Again im not "hurt" however im bothered by all this. I feel played by all angles. Anyone with further advice here? i shouldnt feel like sh*t but i do.

 

[MisterD]

It's okay to feel like ****. They both played you. The dude isn't really your friend and she's a low quality chick who uses sex as a weapon.

And what kind of chick goes crazy because you didnt message her? Girls ignore texts/calls all the time and expect the guy to be cool about it but if it's done to them they can't stand it.

Move on from both this "friend" and this chick. At least you already banged her. What more was left to do anyway? And the guy is getting your sloppy seconds so he lost too.

 

[In2theGame]

It's okay to feel like ****. They both played you. The dude isn't really your friend and she's a low quality chick who uses sex as a weapon.

And what kind of chick goes crazy because you didnt message her? Girls ignore texts/calls all the time and expect the guy to be cool about it but if it's done to them they can't stand it.

Move on from both this "friend" and this chick. At least you already banged her. What more was left to do anyway? And the guy is getting your sloppy seconds so he lost too.

Thanks MisterD, i guess thats whats makin me feel like sh*t the most, its like everyone is ganging up on me. After all the texts and FB posts this girl was putting out about how much she misses me and is into me, after i get her upset shes going to turn around and go after my bestfriend and my best friend goes with it, like if i dont matter. if anything he should of defended me when she was dogging me out to everyone. Also, its exactly what she did, I dont hear from her, i played it cool like its fine but i dont call or text her one day its a chaos. Yeah i banged her out like 10 times that night lol but i wanted to hit it more, eh... Overall i just feel back stabbed.

 

[betheman]

why are you getting upset about this sl ut? and as for your frineds?????


seems to me like you have some sh!tty people in your life, personally id rather be on my own than deal with that cr@p. and get those f cuckers of your FB

 

[In2theGame]

why are you getting upset about this sl ut? and as for your frineds?????


seems to me like you have some sh!tty people in your life, personally id rather be on my own than deal with that cr@p. and get those f cuckers of your FB

Im not upset about the girl as much as it made me upset that she went after my best friend. Now that everything unfolded, its awkward knowing the girl i was just talking to is now talkin to him. So because i "played" her i feel shes tryin to get back at me, ill admit i started to like her a bit but this was just a low class move.

 

[BigSmooth]

The girl is not worth keeping around, especially how she tried to get back at you. Clear signs of b!tch!ness.


As for your friend, don't keep him around either. Real friends don't neg on other friends constantly and consistently. Seems like he/they are picking on you more than just friendly male teasing.