how should i play this?

[spinaltappp]

hey guys,

i havent been on here for about 2 1/2 years - the length of the relationship i've just broken off, so im a little rusty.

i got bored and decided to end it, kind of on good terms, although im not going to contact her again.

Now i want to get back into the game and i know i have a few options, but ive only been broken up for 2 days and i dont know whats an acceptable amount of time to start going for other women. for example i dont want to be talking to new women on facebook because the ex and her friends will see i'm talking to other women.

obviously after 2 days i feel a bit strange still because i havent been single for over 2 years, so it almost doesnt feel like im allowed to persue other women.

how long do you reckon i should leave it before i start with other women?

thanks.

 

[foomee]

start hanging out with your single guy friends.

 

[Cashew]

Now i want to get back into the game and i know i have a few options, but ive only been broken up for 2 days and i dont know whats an acceptable amount of time to start going for other women. for example i dont want to be talking to new women on facebook because the ex and her friends will see i'm talking to other women.

Why does this matter? Why do you care if they see you talking to other women?