"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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how should i play this?

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hey guys,

i havent been on here for about 2 1/2 years - the length of the relationship i've just broken off, so im a little rusty.

i got bored and decided to end it, kind of on good terms, although im not going to contact her again.

Now i want to get back into the game and i know i have a few options, but ive only been broken up for 2 days and i dont know whats an acceptable amount of time to start going for other women. for example i dont want to be talking to new women on facebook because the ex and her friends will see i'm talking to other women.

obviously after 2 days i feel a bit strange still because i havent been single for over 2 years, so it almost doesnt feel like im allowed to persue other women.

how long do you reckon i should leave it before i start with other women?

thanks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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spinaltappp said:
Now i want to get back into the game and i know i have a few options, but ive only been broken up for 2 days and i dont know whats an acceptable amount of time to start going for other women. for example i dont want to be talking to new women on facebook because the ex and her friends will see i'm talking to other women.
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Why does this matter? Why do you care if they see you talking to other women?
 
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