"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How should I message her back?

stoner1129

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So i found this random profile on myspace of some hot chick, her name was michelle so i figured i'd kinda bust on her for it, she didn't take it to good i guess.

So anyways i was just wonderin what shoudl i say when i message her again, act like it never happened or what?


I ACTAULLY DO. BUT NOT RITE NOW

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ROIDZ!!!!
Date: Jun 27, 2008 4:51 PM


wow so anyways you don't joke around

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: MICHELLE
Date: Jun 27, 2008 3:49 PM


SO IVE HEARD

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ROIDZ!!!!
Date: Jun 27, 2008 4:47 PM


lol your funny

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: MICHELLE
Date: Jun 27, 2008 3:44 PM


from idiots, yea

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ROIDZ!!!!
Date: Jun 27, 2008 4:38 PM


cuz i wanted to
why do you get it a lot

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: MICHELLE
Date: Jun 27, 2008 3:37 PM


then why did u call me michael?


----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ROIDZ!!!!
Date: Jun 27, 2008 11:36 PM


ya i know
and no you don't

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: MICHELLE
Date: Jun 27, 2008 3:33 PM


do i know u?

btw, its michelle

----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: ROIDZ!!!!
Date: Jun 27, 2008 11:31 PM


hey michael
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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AKA FLEX

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Hate to say it, but that is a pathetic exchange. Also, when you are trying to say "you are," it is "you're" not "your".

The above poster is right. Get off Myspace and go meet some women in real life. Have a real conversation with them instead of trying to be funny by calling a girl by a boy's name.
 

r0cky

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I agree with AKA FLEX.
But I disagree with the Myspace bit. Myspace girls are real for the most part, when you get them to your place you wont be having no cyber sex.
To answer your question, by this point you should go into showing her DHVs. Tell her an ineteresting story, cold read, etc. I'd suggest calling her out on the attitude. Something like "Hey thats not an attractive attitude, is everything alright?" Then go on to tell her some related DHV story
 

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Learn how to game in person. When you're good at that, then game on myspace.
 

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nah, i started in web. it's the way to get things going and get ideas of what might work, BUT DON'T stick by it !!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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stoner1129

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Lol ok, so anyways i know my game isn't the best and that maybe i should drop her but i'm just tryin to talk to more and more girls to work on my game, also i don't get my license until like next month so i haven't been gettin out a lot latey.

And for the boys name part, i was just tryin somethin out to to see how it worked.
 

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stoner1129 said:
Lol ok, so anyways i know my game isn't the best and that maybe i should drop her but i'm just tryin to talk to more and more girls to work on my game, also i don't get my license until like next month so i haven't been gettin out a lot latey.

And for the boys name part, i was just tryin somethin out to to see how it worked.

pretty females get hundreds of dumb annoying emails from guys like you every week. go outside and talk to females in person then you can compliment your game with online mackin when your real life game gets better.
 

stoner1129

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I was thinking maybe try it again, message her, and just see if things go better this time.
 

IsiMan84

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Just cut your losses and talk to somebody else. That conversation was doomed from the start. She probably thinks you're 11.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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