How should i invite her over?

[Brak86]

Do you think its ok to come straight out and ask a girl to your place?it seems like being that straightforward wont work. Besides, Highschool is different than college/gradschool. shes definately interested but i dunno if she would be ok/comfortable with coming over to my house yet.

We both know we are attracted to each other but we havent actually verbally said it...we can both tell from EC, and from us touching each other a lot. We jhave been friends for awhile and im guessing we both are hesitant to make a move just because we arent totally sure how we think about each other. So each of us dont want to risk it. But im the guy, i have the balls here. My idea was maybe to exaggerate the truth: for example my parents are kind of mad at me now so i could tell her that i might not be able to go out saturday so ill ask her if she might be willing to keep me company.

Also, she probably wants to go out to party at night so i might invite her over in the afternoon....what do you all think about inviting a chick over on the weekend? sorry i need advice ive never ever done this before. Im just getting chicks to become attracted to me which is a start.

 

[DO NOT ENTER my butt]

What do you have to lose by coming straightforward and asking if she would like to go to your house? Nothing. You claim you are hesitant to make a move on your girl since you two aren't sure how you feel about each other and you don't want to risk jeopardizing "it". There is nothing to jeopardize by going to your house unless you plan on: asking if she wants to take the relationship to a higher level, making out and/or having sex. You're thinking too much into this dilemma. Heck, it's not even worthy of being called a dilemma. Just ask. You're probably asking me what if she says no? Fine. Drop it. Don't push the subject b/c then she will think you're just trying to get in her pants (which you prolly are but .....meh....).

 

[Brak86]

ahah yea i am tryin to get in her pants I mean itll be obvious that im attracted her if i invite her over. Ive been friends with her for awhile but ive never invited only her over.

 

[Brak86]

also let me add im taking her to hc so i have a better chance to get poon when we are all feelin really horny and a little tipsy....its a possibilty but thats in a month and i dont want to depend on hc and wait that long.