Hi guys, this post became rather lengthy, so I thank you for taking the time to read it.
My question: Should I have acted differently at any point that night to get into her panties? Or did I do everything right and didn't have a chance from the beginning - friendship zone?
Last night I was on a private party -about 20 or 30 guests - most of them Japanese.
So, one of the Japanese girls approached me, asked me for my name, etc. We talked for a while, but later we parted and turned towards other people.
Now she was a really extrovert girl, talked to lots of guys on the party.
Later, when the party was almost over, she asked me how I was and we talked again briefly and found out that we lived relatively close to each other - different districts though. She asked me how I'd get home and I said "First I'll take the subway at 1:18 am to the main station and then the bus."
Anyway she wanted me to accompany her along the way home. I agreed.
BTW, we were both drunk.
When it was time to go, she took me by the hand and said "Let's go" or something.
On the way to the subway she first asked me for permission to smoke and later for permission to call someone on the cell phone
confused: ). Anyway I permitted her both. When she had finished talking on the phone, I asked her whom she had called - It was her boyfriend.
At the subway station we met some of the other guests of the party, who had left earlier. I more or less ignored her then and talked to the others.
At the main station most of us walked to the busses. She then linked arms with me and for a short moment with another guy, too.
I went directly to my bus, she followed me. She asked the bus driver if he'd drive to her place, he replied "You'd better take bus number x, it passes through all your district."
She decided to take my bus nevertheless. (Stupid girl )
She asked me again "Can you bring me to blabla street, from there I'll find my home." - "OK"
In the bus we kept talking, some kino.
We left the bus at the stop closest to my place and I said "I'll fetch my bike, so I can get home faster when I brought you home."
She was shivering and saying it was cold, so I wrapped my arm around her hip. She also wrapped her arm around my hip.
At my place then I wanted to fetch my bike from the cellar. She wanted to go to the toilet. So we entered my place and I showed her the bathroom. When she left the bathroom, she went directly to the door again, so I didn't make any move. (Probably I should have invited her to a cup of tea earlier?)
We then left towards her place I had my arm around her again and she hers around me.
While walking we talked a bit. At some point she said "I really love my boyfriend. ... But he's got other women. ... You're really nice I wish my boyfriend was like you." She kept repeating "You're really nice.", "Thank you." and "Are you OK?".
(Note: We were talking German and she was Japanese, so "nice" doesn't necessarily mean "nice guy", but I don't know.)
Should I probably have moved my hand towards her ass here?
When we finally arrived her place after about 30 minutes, she asked me "Do you want to come in for some tea?"
Me: "Yes." (with a "Why not?" - tone)
But then she immediatly said "But my room is really a mess, it looks like after a catastrophe."
Me: "It doesn't matter, my room isn't any better."
She: "We'd better drink the tea next week, because I'm going to (another city) next morning." (She already told me that before, she had to get up at 5:30 am - meanwhile it was about 2:30 am - crazy girl)
She: "Do you have cell phone, so we can exchange numbers?"
We exchanged numbers, then she hugged me. Would have liked to kiss her, but she turned her face, so I didn't try.
My question: Should I have acted differently at any point that night to get into her panties? Or did I do everything right and didn't have a chance from the beginning - friendship zone?
Last night I was on a private party -about 20 or 30 guests - most of them Japanese.
So, one of the Japanese girls approached me, asked me for my name, etc. We talked for a while, but later we parted and turned towards other people.
Now she was a really extrovert girl, talked to lots of guys on the party.
Later, when the party was almost over, she asked me how I was and we talked again briefly and found out that we lived relatively close to each other - different districts though. She asked me how I'd get home and I said "First I'll take the subway at 1:18 am to the main station and then the bus."
Anyway she wanted me to accompany her along the way home. I agreed.
BTW, we were both drunk.
When it was time to go, she took me by the hand and said "Let's go" or something.
On the way to the subway she first asked me for permission to smoke and later for permission to call someone on the cell phone
confused: ). Anyway I permitted her both. When she had finished talking on the phone, I asked her whom she had called - It was her boyfriend.At the subway station we met some of the other guests of the party, who had left earlier. I more or less ignored her then and talked to the others.
At the main station most of us walked to the busses. She then linked arms with me and for a short moment with another guy, too.
I went directly to my bus, she followed me. She asked the bus driver if he'd drive to her place, he replied "You'd better take bus number x, it passes through all your district."
She decided to take my bus nevertheless. (Stupid girl
)She asked me again "Can you bring me to blabla street, from there I'll find my home." - "OK"
In the bus we kept talking, some kino.
We left the bus at the stop closest to my place and I said "I'll fetch my bike, so I can get home faster when I brought you home."
She was shivering and saying it was cold, so I wrapped my arm around her hip. She also wrapped her arm around my hip.
At my place then I wanted to fetch my bike from the cellar. She wanted to go to the toilet. So we entered my place and I showed her the bathroom. When she left the bathroom, she went directly to the door again, so I didn't make any move. (Probably I should have invited her to a cup of tea earlier?)
We then left towards her place I had my arm around her again and she hers around me.
While walking we talked a bit. At some point she said "I really love my boyfriend. ... But he's got other women. ... You're really nice I wish my boyfriend was like you." She kept repeating "You're really nice.", "Thank you." and "Are you OK?".
(Note: We were talking German and she was Japanese, so "nice" doesn't necessarily mean "nice guy", but I don't know.)
Should I probably have moved my hand towards her ass here?
When we finally arrived her place after about 30 minutes, she asked me "Do you want to come in for some tea?"
Me: "Yes." (with a "Why not?" - tone)
But then she immediatly said "But my room is really a mess, it looks like after a catastrophe."
Me: "It doesn't matter, my room isn't any better."
She: "We'd better drink the tea next week, because I'm going to (another city) next morning." (She already told me that before, she had to get up at 5:30 am - meanwhile it was about 2:30 am - crazy girl)
She: "Do you have cell phone, so we can exchange numbers?"
We exchanged numbers, then she hugged me. Would have liked to kiss her, but she turned her face, so I didn't try.