"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hey guys, i'm needing a little advice or help on something. There's this girl where I work at that i like. She just broke up with her boyfriend this week. We flirt back and forth all the time. One time I was talking to another female coworker and later on she said "oh what are you cheating on me now?" I replied back with "well you know you cheated first and besides your too young for me anyways, it was good while it lasted." By the way i'm 30 and she's 22. I was talking to her one day and I told her too bad you have a boyfriend and she was like why, i was like i have an extra ticket to a concert and i was going to ask you if you wanted to go. Well she took it wrong and said I love my boyfriend and I plan on being with my boyfriend but we can still be friends. I said to myself that's not how i meant it. Anyways she is confused about her first boyfriend and her most recent one. But she said she wanted to be on her own for a while. How long should I wait or should I even try to hook up with her? And how should i go about doing it if I decide to ask her out? Thanks for any advice or suggestions
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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