"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How should I handle this?

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Radiance

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So awhile back there was this girl I was talking to. We kind of had a thing in the past, we're kind of like on/off friends with benefits thing.

Anyway, SHE started talking to ME again out of nowhere. At first I wasn't planning to jump on anything, but it was obvious she was getting interested and even more interested because I was kind of ignoring her, so she was actually kind of obsessed at one point.

So then I try to toss it around a bit, but a little moves on her, I was doing a push pull one day.. and to my suprise she kind of just rolled her eyes and acted uninterested. It was a pretty ace P-P showing some sexual interest, but I got the cold shoulder.

It didn't bother me too much, and I got over it fairly quickly, I was just a little confused about it all. I later found out she was already talking to another guy. I could tell this kid was an AFC from the start, he's a little chump. He talks to a lot of girls and has them as friends, but I think he only goes through them every week or so because he ****s **** up to much.

So I'm pretty sure he must of did something stupid, because they hung over at her house, then what do you know.... she starts talking to me again.

I'm kind of pissed off about the whole thing. I'm not even sure I want to take her back or try pursuing her again.. and if I do.. I deffinately want to let know I know what she is doing and I'm not down to play any of her games. I'm just not sure how to tell her this without seeming too much like a prick.

Who else has had this problem, and what did you do about it. What were the results?

Thanks.
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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I think you shoud fully assess how you feel about yourself. Try to remember exactly why you came to a site like this and how far you really want to go; as in, what kind of person do you eventually want to be? (in essence, your better self right?)

I ask you then, or rather you ask yourself, would your better self waste his time on a chick like this?
 
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Ask that guy for advice as he obviously seems to be having better luck with women than you.
 
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