How Should I Handle This One????

[LeChanteur]

Hoping you all could help me with what to do next, I'm in a bit of a dilemma.

Basically there is this girl I like, who likes me back, and we've been out a few times and all seems well. We get on well, lots in common IL etc etc. However, this girl is 1) shy and 2) very inexperienced when it comes to matters of the heart.

She is still waiting for the rugged knight from all the stories she's read to come riding over the horizon and sweep her away. She's yet to realize that it doesn't happen like this and this is probably the reason she is still so inexperienced.

Now I find out through another of my female friends that she is really unsure of what she wants and although I don't think she told my female friend directly my friend told me it was time to move on. Now this is something I've thought about, for as we all know it's not good to be wasting your time, but I really like this girl and am getting all the right signs back. The problem is her shyness is going to prevent her from saying anything to me directly I know it.

So what should I do? Should I NEXT her?

Awaiting your wisdom.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Originally posted by LeChanteur
Hoping you all could help me with what to do next, I'm in a bit of a dilemma.

Basically there is this girl I like, who likes me back, and we've been out a few times and all seems well. We get on well, lots in common IL etc etc. However, this girl is 1) shy and 2) very inexperienced when it comes to matters of the heart.

She is still waiting for the rugged knight from all the stories she's read to come riding over the horizon and sweep her away. She's yet to realize that it doesn't happen like this and this is probably the reason she is still so inexperienced.

Now I find out through another of my female friends that she is really unsure of what she wants and although I don't think she told my female friend directly my friend told me it was time to move on. Now this is something I've thought about, for as we all know it's not good to be wasting your time, but I really like this girl and am getting all the right signs back. The problem is her shyness is going to prevent her from saying anything to me directly I know it.

So what should I do? Should I NEXT her?

Awaiting your wisdom.

You said she likes you back? WRONG ANSWER!! Shy or attention *****, if she was into you as much as you are in to her, her behavior wouldn't even be an issue. She'd tell you things like:

"No one has ever made me feel so comfortable so quick"

This girl's interest level obiviously isn't as high as you think, so I'd say....NEXT NEXT NEXT!!



PIMP

 

[Tkman]

Originally posted by LeChanteur


She is still waiting for the rugged knight from all the stories she's read to come riding over the horizon and sweep her away.

The End ...... Overrrrrrrrrr ...........

 

[braille]

dude, i'm in the same situation right now. the girl is completely blind to her own feelings. lost, confused, watches too many movies, and has read too many books.

yes start looking for another girl, but this doesn't mean blow her off. Sometimes people dont know how to go about the way they feel. so stay friends, hang out, but dont push her, and dont give any signs of attention, or any sign that you want to be with her.
Trust me, I just did that. I pushed her. I told her i cared for her and wanted to be with her. believe me this girl liked me. buying me stuff, taking me to lunch, inviting me over to come watch a movie in her bed. but I pulled an AFC move and showed her my true feelings too quick and too strong and she backed off. Everybody seems to think she'll come around again since i'm the closest person she has in her life, but i cant sit around and wait. Patience is the key. If its meant to be she'll come around some how. if its not you'll probably have another girl anyways. It sucks bro, but chicks are crazy like that. none of them know what they really want.

hang out with your friends, girls especially, and you'll sort things and things will work themselves out when you're not paying attention to it. life has a funny way of bringing things back to you.