"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How should I go about this?

Onegoal

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She hasn't called yet and it's been 36 hrs. If shes working tonight should I try flirting with her a little more?

I dunno if shes working or not she told me when she works, but didnt remember if shes off tonight or not. If not I know I'll see her on sat.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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GuanYu

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Sounds like you're done. She's probably wishing you took the hint the first time she indirectly rejected you.

If she was really interested in you don't you think she would have gave her number instead of you giving yours? Girls almost never call a guy unless he initiates the first few times. You initiated and apparently it wasn't good enough.

Move on and save yourself the trouble of trying to game a chick with no interest. Also, you waited too long to make a move on her. You should have gamed her the very first time you saw her instead of becoming a regular to her.
 
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