"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How should I go about this?

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She hasn't called yet and it's been 36 hrs. If shes working tonight should I try flirting with her a little more?

I dunno if shes working or not she told me when she works, but didnt remember if shes off tonight or not. If not I know I'll see her on sat.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sounds like you're done. She's probably wishing you took the hint the first time she indirectly rejected you.

If she was really interested in you don't you think she would have gave her number instead of you giving yours? Girls almost never call a guy unless he initiates the first few times. You initiated and apparently it wasn't good enough.

Move on and save yourself the trouble of trying to game a chick with no interest. Also, you waited too long to make a move on her. You should have gamed her the very first time you saw her instead of becoming a regular to her.
 
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