"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i also forgot to mention after I sent her my last text (the one asking which of our houses we are going to go to), she tweeted out, "You're just digging a deeper hole for yourself."

so she could just felt used when i asked about going to her house again (or as she might have seen it, asking for another bj)...even tho she's been kind of *****y on text, when we're together in person she's been happy/flirty/emotionally attached, so i dont want her to think i pumped n dumped. it could also give me a bad rep among the girls in my school.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Last tuesday, two days after we had our date, i texted her saying, "so are you going to come her or am i going to comer there again?"
 
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Dude you're 16 it's not easy, but the good news is you here now.

The key to relationships is to understand that they come and go, they can end at any point in time, and no one owes you anything.

If you have rationalize a girl's behavior it means you're in her web and it also means she's doing something disrespectful and you're not calling her on it because you're afraid she'll leave.

If there was an all time rule it would be... "You can and will walk away at anytime"

Every minute you waste on this girl is a minute lost with better girls. There are a lot of guys who have wasted time and money on girls who ultimately would never end up with those guys.
 
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Thanks thats great advice...gonna look at that often

and on a side note, she tweeted lyrics from the song "Irreplaceable" by Beyonce, so it looks like shes trying to get over me lmao
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Havent talked/texted her since then, but she did text me this morning saying "good luck" (I play football and we had our first game today). Im not interested in being in a relationship with her (completely over the oneitis), but I do want to learn from this. So what could her intentions be with that text message? Is she trying to talk to me because she misses me or to boost her ego?
 
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