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Master Don Juan
First off, thanks for taking the time to open this post. I'm hoping some of you gentlemen will be able to offer me advice and insight regarding what I can expect from my newest gaming adventure, which is this bangin' 35 year old Lithuanian chick.
I met her at my last job. She was a customer that came into my shop probably once or twice a month. It seems like I'm always the one that helped her, and because of that we've kind of small talked and gotten to know one another at least a little bit over the past few months.
Well, I've had a thing for her ever since I first met her. She's 35 (I have to check IDs in my line of work), ~130lbs with large C cups, dishwater blonde, and a nice ass (at least from what I've seen in her jeans). A solid 7 right now, probably an 8.5 in her prime fifteen years ago. But beyond that, she's a seemingly intelligent worldly woman, dresses and acts with sophistication, and is able to match wits with me when we flirt.
Anyways, a couple weeks ago it's super late and I'm just locking the front door about to roll out and of course she shows up and wants me to help set her up with some gear. So I go back in to help her out, and get to talking to her about some of our shared interests and life goals and such. Turns out she's divorced from some Russian guy and has kids (I've met two of them, a boy who's probably 9 and a girl who is probably 5 or so, not sure if she has more)
Long story short, I'm figuring that this might be my last opportunity to game this chick since I was about to switch jobs, so I just come up with some weaksauce excuse to give her my card, because she wants to work in the same field that I'm in and is doing the kind of work that I had done a few years back.
She responds by grabbing another one of my cards and writing her number on it, without me even asking. I forget the reason why she said she wanted me to have her #, but anyways I ask her if it's ok to call her just to call her so we can hang out and just get to know one another and she happily agrees, saying that she doesn't know anybody in my town. Frame set, I hope.
Now, that all sounds like I'm getting the green light to proceed but there are a few obstacles that I need to be realistic about. I guess my biggest problem is with expectations. I think as both reasonable, rational adults that her and I can both agree that we want to bang each other out of mutual attractiveness, but I don't know where to go from there. For whatever reason, I never liked the casual sex thing, and I feel used if a girl just wants to have sex. On the flipside, I don't really want to seriously date her or anything, because taking care of kids is for chumps. I kind of want to work out a situation where we can be friends with benefits/date casually, because she really is an interesting person to talk to.
Also, how do I deal with her kids? I am inclined just to ignore that they exist, at least when it comes to planning things out with her, I know they are gonna be a pain in the ass, at the very least logistics wise.
We also live about a 35 minute drive away, so I have to plan stuff out in advance if we want to hang. She doesn't really come down my way, and since my last job is done I don't have much of a reason to meet up with her up there either. So I can't just do off-the-cuff spontaneous stuff with her, either.
Now, I haven't called her yet, since she said she had finals last week and I didn't want to bother her. I want to invite her out to do something fun and youthful, to make her feel like a sexy young lady again.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated
I met her at my last job. She was a customer that came into my shop probably once or twice a month. It seems like I'm always the one that helped her, and because of that we've kind of small talked and gotten to know one another at least a little bit over the past few months.
Well, I've had a thing for her ever since I first met her. She's 35 (I have to check IDs in my line of work), ~130lbs with large C cups, dishwater blonde, and a nice ass (at least from what I've seen in her jeans). A solid 7 right now, probably an 8.5 in her prime fifteen years ago. But beyond that, she's a seemingly intelligent worldly woman, dresses and acts with sophistication, and is able to match wits with me when we flirt.
Anyways, a couple weeks ago it's super late and I'm just locking the front door about to roll out and of course she shows up and wants me to help set her up with some gear. So I go back in to help her out, and get to talking to her about some of our shared interests and life goals and such. Turns out she's divorced from some Russian guy and has kids (I've met two of them, a boy who's probably 9 and a girl who is probably 5 or so, not sure if she has more)
Long story short, I'm figuring that this might be my last opportunity to game this chick since I was about to switch jobs, so I just come up with some weaksauce excuse to give her my card, because she wants to work in the same field that I'm in and is doing the kind of work that I had done a few years back.
She responds by grabbing another one of my cards and writing her number on it, without me even asking. I forget the reason why she said she wanted me to have her #, but anyways I ask her if it's ok to call her just to call her so we can hang out and just get to know one another and she happily agrees, saying that she doesn't know anybody in my town. Frame set, I hope.
Now, that all sounds like I'm getting the green light to proceed but there are a few obstacles that I need to be realistic about. I guess my biggest problem is with expectations. I think as both reasonable, rational adults that her and I can both agree that we want to bang each other out of mutual attractiveness, but I don't know where to go from there. For whatever reason, I never liked the casual sex thing, and I feel used if a girl just wants to have sex. On the flipside, I don't really want to seriously date her or anything, because taking care of kids is for chumps. I kind of want to work out a situation where we can be friends with benefits/date casually, because she really is an interesting person to talk to.
Also, how do I deal with her kids? I am inclined just to ignore that they exist, at least when it comes to planning things out with her, I know they are gonna be a pain in the ass, at the very least logistics wise.
We also live about a 35 minute drive away, so I have to plan stuff out in advance if we want to hang. She doesn't really come down my way, and since my last job is done I don't have much of a reason to meet up with her up there either. So I can't just do off-the-cuff spontaneous stuff with her, either.
Now, I haven't called her yet, since she said she had finals last week and I didn't want to bother her. I want to invite her out to do something fun and youthful, to make her feel like a sexy young lady again.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated
