"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How should I game this girl??

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Met a girl mid-december and instantly hit it off with an intense three week fling. She dumped me for what I believe was an ex, based on how fast she was moving (rebounding?). She did have some AW traits. Things didn't end well, after some email exchanges on facebook, she blocked me and we haven't spoken for over a month. Last night she texted and said "Are you at [Bar] I thought I saw you". I have other plates and am "over" her so I responded with "no" out of sheer curiosity. She continued to text me last night and today. Said I should visit her dog who had surgery (didn't give an answer to this). My texts have been short and distant.

I'm not looking to get back with her per se, but am curious why she's talking to me like nothing happened. I'd like to use this as practice, see how far I can take it, how much I can get her pinning for me again.

What's the best way to proceed?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
You said she has AW traits. You are a fan club member. Research "Histrionic Personality Disorder" and proceed with caution.
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Just looked it up on Wikipedia and it describes her to a tee.
 
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