"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How should I game this girl??

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Met a girl mid-december and instantly hit it off with an intense three week fling. She dumped me for what I believe was an ex, based on how fast she was moving (rebounding?). She did have some AW traits. Things didn't end well, after some email exchanges on facebook, she blocked me and we haven't spoken for over a month. Last night she texted and said "Are you at [Bar] I thought I saw you". I have other plates and am "over" her so I responded with "no" out of sheer curiosity. She continued to text me last night and today. Said I should visit her dog who had surgery (didn't give an answer to this). My texts have been short and distant.

I'm not looking to get back with her per se, but am curious why she's talking to me like nothing happened. I'd like to use this as practice, see how far I can take it, how much I can get her pinning for me again.

What's the best way to proceed?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
You said she has AW traits. You are a fan club member. Research "Histrionic Personality Disorder" and proceed with caution.
Just looked it up on Wikipedia and it describes her to a tee.
 
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