"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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how should I feel about my progress

MackJr

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I've got to the point where a couple of days a week, I go into town and work the field.

I've actually approached women, and even secured their names on occasion. I've gotten much better at the initial smile and at managing the 'playfulness', ie, the C&F that is so important.

So I've gotten a lot of these subvariables under more control, and I do find interacting with women a lot more fun, but it hasn't translated into regular lays yet.

I don't know if I should be harder on myself to try to close or if I should pat myself on the bat at bringing my baseline game up a few notches.

As a "mature man", I get fewer opportunities, so this is important.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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white sox bill

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Don't know what guru said it but "The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step" or something like that!

Good job! Keep it up this is a marathon not a sprint. Make progress every day!
 

gixxer

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Just keep working it little by little and compare yourself to where you came from not where you want to be. Sure, you need to have goals and a vision of who you want to be, but don't get hung up on everything you're doing "wrong"

I usually take a break when I start feeling burned out and leave women alone for a few weeks. When I come back I feel like I have a lot more game than when I started the break.

gixx
 

Kenturkey

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persist!

It sounds like you're on the right track, so keep up the good work. Eventually you won't have to pat yourself on "the bat", they'll be patting your bat for you. ;-)


Chris
 
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