"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How should I escalate this?

radicalist

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Theres a girl I'm really interested in right now, I go to school alone with her in the mornings and we're completely comfortable with each other in real life, but she gives me dead or late responses on AIM a lot like she doesn't want to talk. She doesn't mind when I kino or hug but doesn't initiate it. I'm seriously not looking to get friend zoned here. Any ideas?
A few things: Shes a year younger than me. I'm a junior, shes a sophomore. I've known her for a while but we just started getting closer a few weeks ago. I wouldn't consider myself shy, nor do I compliment her like 24/7.. she says i'm nicer than a lot of people because I "go out of my way to spend time with her" (lol). We don't have legit dates and stuff, it's more like she'll accompany me places alone or we'll get coffee, maybe shop once in a while, nothing like movies or dinner togethe. Thanks!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Jack Wealthy

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IMO you're already friend zoned man. Go focus on other girls.
For her particularly though, tease a lot and make her feel sexual around you as this is the only chance you have to get more then friendship. No 'nice' game like you'd use on girls you don't know (Juggler Method, Gunwitch) and all ******* game and ****y funny.
 

Mr. Suave

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There's not really a "friend zone". Just escalate and see what happens. If she resists then she's not into you. It's not because you're her "friend", it's because she's not attracted to you.

Touch can be quite important really, so be flirty with her, put your arm around her when you're sitting down, when you're walking together... If her hair falls in front of her face, push it back behind her ear for her... Anything really. If she's okay with it you can push it further. It doesn't matter if you're "friend zoned" or not, just be physical with her and unless she continuously squirms away from your touch your golden.

It doesn't really matter what she says about whether or not she's into you, all that matters is how she reacts to your advances. If she's cold at first keep trying. Tell her she looks hot/sexy... Keep up the touch. If she continuously reacts poorly then forget about it. But a lot of girls will go along with it. Even girls who "see you as a friend", or girls who tell their friends about how they'd "never go out with you". The amount of girls who call a guy ugly, claim they'd never like them, then end up dating them is pretty crazy. The only time it doesn't work out is when the guy's a bit scared and not ballsy enough to just take her.
 
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