Master Don Juan
- Dec 21, 2017
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Good to see posting like this, getting to see what are the relationship with A/W looks like..
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Just had a convo with a guy here about mens abilities to rationalize red flags away. Its like its in the water or something.Respectfully...I realize Rollo is a popular manosphere figure, but I'd recommend Jack Donovan's 'Way of Men', as a first book on masculinity. Some will object that Donovan is gay, but his sexuality figures nowhere into his writing, and the objection is rather like pointing out that Hemmingway blew his own brains out; it's irrelevant to either man's writing.
Donovan approaches masculinity, on its own, independent of women, and from an anthropological(first principles) perspective. This is important, because I believe the primary problem most modern men have with women is that they don't spend enough time alone with other men, doing masculine things(building, hunting, exploring, fighting, inventing). Being the default male among a group of females doesn't make a man the prize bull; he might just as well be the harem eunuch.
If men will develop healthier masculine relationships, they'll be less likely to eagerly accept being simps and cucks.
I think the problem is that too many men focus on how to work their way up from harem eunuch to prize bull, which places all of their self-worth in the hands of women, regardless of their respective ends of the spectrum. What they fail to acknowledge is that, anthropologically, a man's value to women is determined, first, by his value to other men. A man whose value is determined entirely by his value to women, independently, is a kept man, regardless of how highly he's prized by them.Just had a convo with a guy here about mens abilities to rationalize red flags away. Its like its in the water or something.
Im sure there are other resources its just RM just resonated with me. And of course pook. For women.
But as you said just focusing on the masculine part my be great for some readers.
Call a single male friend, and go do something productive, and block that biitch's number, and then delete it. This ain't rocket surgery.
Particularly true, a women 100% into you will come with respect toward her man.Or maybe if she values him enough she will conform herself to him. But I could definitely be wrong, I don't know this girl or him. Women will change themselves for you if they value you enough. They'll do it quickly too.
Is it always people they like. I've seen a lady mirror alot of the actions of a guy in a group. She wanted to be part of the group. He was the loudest Talker.By mirroring the guy personallity, she could be well experienced enought guessing their guy liking and preferences.
How is it unbelievable when everyone here was telling you that this is bad news from experience? This is what happens to guys who try to rationalize that everything is fine or that things are different. Sleepless nights for them while everyone else saw it from a mile away.Well this is f*cking unbelievable.
Cause she's playing you and you don't have enough self respect to take action due to wanting a relationship. It's only gonna get more frustrating with more headaches should you choose to deal with this for some reason.
They type of person that you cant trust, she will flip out once better deal comes along.She would matrix transform to whichever group she interface with. She wanted to be liked and did things that are way out of character. I could see she was good at playing "roles".
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He's in a common position for a man without abundance. There are powerful actions that can be taken to elevate yourself at this point. Focus on your purpose. Deprioritizing or removing the entity thats causing you disrespect yourself.Unfortunately, I can tell by how distraught OP is by this, and by how he is waiting by the phone to hear back from her despite her behavior and disrespect to him, that he isn’t going to follow our advice, and as a result, will be further stripped of his pride and suffer further agony from this girl. At this point I would advise OP to figure out the source of his lack of self-respect that causes him to remain this attached to someone who disrespects him so badly. His natural reaction to her actions should not be fear, jealousy, anxiety, frustration, and loss, but rather disgust, disinterest, and detachment.
The issue is not her behaviour.She's randomly posted mirror selfie "look at my ass" thirst trap-esque pics (once every week or two) ever since I've known her, which was fine early on since she was single, but now we're exclusive and she's still doing it just as much or more than ever. And this week she's really going for it...
Wednesday night she posted an ass selfie in short shorts with the caption "bed time", and last night she posted a video of herself swinging around on her pole dancing pole with the song "crazy *****" playing in the background and wearing short shorts that she had rolled up further, so her ass cheeks were hanging out (they were rolled up enough so that about half her ass was showing).
I don't care if she takes pics/vids like this, but it bothers me that she's sharing them publicly--especially on snapchat. First of all, it makes me think she might secretly be very insecure and requires constant attention from random people, including random people of the opposite sex, for validation. And more importantly, I'm sure she has other guys on her friends list who see these vids. And being a guy I know how guys think and what they'll try to do when they see this stuff. What bothers me the most is that she's deliberately showing herself in a sexual manner publicly on snapchat and is putting herself in a position where she'll get hit on by other guys when she's already committed to me.
I really, REALLY like this girl, we have a ton of real emotional and personality chemistry that I've only ever felt a couple other times in my decade+ of dating, and I want to make this work, but I don't know what to make of this. I'm not sure how to bring this up in a non-combative way.