"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
How should I ask this girl out after we've had a few dates/kissed?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I'd beg to differ.positivity_injection said:
That's bull****. What one doesn't know, can be learned. No one can really know what being in a relationship is like and how to act in it, before he actually is in a relationship, or has had several relationships. One would only be able to imagine what it will be like, but never really know, because he has never been in a relationship.positivity_injection said:
On-topic: David DeAngelo says that when you spend a lot of time with her, dates or whatever, after a time she will automatically (or is that automagically ?
) get those 'we're in a relationship'-feelings. Now, I don't know if that's true or not, but it's worth a shot.positivity_injection
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