How should I approach her?

[I_Only_Live_Once]

I see this HB8.5 around campas and I've decided I'm going to approach her. My question is if I should approach her direct or indirect.

She has a lap top computer, so for indirect approach I was thinking of just sitting besides her and then asking her something about her laptop first. And then afterwards, shifting the conversation to something else for a bit, and then # close.

The alternative is just to walk right up to her and basically ask if she's available and then # close.

Which method would have a better success rate?

 

[Damian]

Whichever one you're more comfortable with. If you're more comfortable with one method, you'll use it with more confidence and make a better impression. Just do it

-Damian

 

[RaWBLooD]

talk to her about anything, not laptop parts.
Dont go, ARE YOU SINGLE, youll freak her out.

 

[I_Only_Live_Once]

But what is there to talk about with someone who I don't even know? She's a stranger. I don't wanna talk about something like "hi, how's the weather?"

 

[blinkwatt]

Simple this would work for me I do not know about you. Ask her if you could use her laptop for a second to check your eBay action,email etc. because you are waiting for something important. Then just say "hey thanks i really appreciate it,whats your name" and carry on a conversation from there.

 

[Mr Spitfire]

Walk right up to her slowly not looking at her, head up relaxed body. This is nothing. You are joking about this whole thing (mind state). Its bullshiit lying, you guys need to learn it.

"How's the love of my life doing today?"

Not looking at her. Positive sign from her make eye contact smiling proud and close the number

"All seriousness aside, Give me your number, I'll talk to you later." In a coming down from a high tone.

If she turns you down:

"Then give me your fake number."

If she laughs you say look "Well at least make out with my for a few minutes."

If she doesnt know what to say. Then say

"Ok, we'll have sex tommorrow then. See you tommorrow!" Big positive optimistic smile eyebrows up and walk away.

She will think you are a pimp

 

[RaWBLooD]

Originally posted by Mr Spitfire
Walk right up to her slowly not looking at her, head up relaxed body. This is nothing. You are joking about this whole thing (mind state). Its bullshiit lying, you guys need to learn it.

"How's the love of my life doing today?"

Not looking at her. Positive sign from her make eye contact smiling proud and close the number

"All seriousness aside, Give me your number, I'll talk to you later." In a coming down from a high tone.

If she turns you down:

"Then give me your fake number."

If she laughs you say look "Well at least make out with my for a few minutes."

If she doesnt know what to say. Then say

"Ok, we'll have sex tommorrow then. See you tommorrow!" Big positive optimistic smile eyebrows up and walk away.

She will think you are a pimp

Ever actually tried that? its fun pretending you are in a porn movie.....

 

[Mr Spitfire]

Guess you arent a bull****ter

You have to feel how much you can get away with joking about. If you are obviously joking without fear or shame then you can do it.

Yes I have and it creates a connection if you don't care. You have to not care genius. Who cares. I don't.