I went to dinner with a female friend of mine from middle school. She is in a relationship with a man that is a state away (she just moved here). The check came and of course she can kiss my a^^, I'm not paying for anything but my own. She says to me "I miss my boyfriend taking me out to 300 dollar steak dinners. Now I am having to pay my own dinners. Why did I move here?" Then she told me that he made 80 bucks in hour and bragged about it how she got everything she needed. This is a man who got a job through a "hook up" right after grad school, while his peers are making 18 an hour. She is saying all this to a man (me) who just lost his job and is living off of unemployment (she knows this). I have no sexual interest (never did) or even friend interest in her anymore. She makes me sick. It's cool you got 300 dollar dinners but I get 299 a week on unemployment. To even bring that up and act like you deserve it just because you are a woman has turned me off to even the friendship.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
How shallow women can be sometimes
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
zekko
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If she's in a relationship with that dude who makes so much money why did she move?
I think it's tacky discussing money like that. I know guys who brag about how much they make, they tell you down to the dollar. I make a pretty decent wage but I don't go around telling people how much, it's not the way I was raised.
I think it's tacky discussing money like that. I know guys who brag about how much they make, they tell you down to the dollar. I make a pretty decent wage but I don't go around telling people how much, it's not the way I was raised.
I would personally, just drop it like its hot. or you could go the other route and tell her what a douche bag she is being.
seems that she's overcompensating for something that's missing.
to quote a rapper: "Money don't buy me happiness, but I can buy what I want, anytime I want."
seems that she's overcompensating for something that's missing.
to quote a rapper: "Money don't buy me happiness, but I can buy what I want, anytime I want."
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She did that to make your squirm. B1tches aka women do that. I remember in high school girls would always ask me what I got on exams and I always lied to them saying a score about 5 points lower than what I thought they got. Their response was always predictable "ohhh really, ask me what I got." And so I asked to entertain myself and they always said their score with a smirk and air of superiority.trent81 said:
When final grades came out I got a higher grade, the b1tches had the nerve to complain to my teacher, but she revealed I had always had the highest or 2nd highest score in the class.
Fvcking brilliant seeing the look on their faces.
Anyways, drop this penny wh0re and find some quality women to hang out with . Never lower your standards, never compromise. The moment you do, the b1tch owns your balls.
Hughman
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That doesn't sound like a real friend to me. And if she is, then she is just a real *****. Pretty uncool talking about how successful her man is when you're in the dumps.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Son of anarchy
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We all know how most of the girls think,no surprise anymore.
Apart that you have my solidarity Trent,this crysis is hitting a lot of people.
Apart that you have my solidarity Trent,this crysis is hitting a lot of people.
lol shes a ***** dude..... this is why guys spending all their money on chicks just doesnt work......
1) guy spends all his money on girl
2) girl gets sense of entitlement and turns cold
3) girl marries guy with money
4) girl gets even colder
5) girl divorces guy with money, takes half of said money
6) guy who used to have money joins a site like sosuave to figure out how to stop being such a chump
circle of life
1) guy spends all his money on girl
2) girl gets sense of entitlement and turns cold
3) girl marries guy with money
4) girl gets even colder
5) girl divorces guy with money, takes half of said money
6) guy who used to have money joins a site like sosuave to figure out how to stop being such a chump
circle of life
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Consider her ethnic background. I'm Jewish and in Israel it's perfectly acceptable to ask a man/woman's salary upon first meeting them, so this doesn't sound too outlandish. I wasn't there though (obviously) and it sounds like she might just be a jerk.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Yeah, she is costing me women too. She follows me to the gym and to the beach and sh**. Women and my friends think she is my girlfriend. She's like herpes, can't get rid of her. I told her to go fuvk her boyfriend next weekend and leave me alone and keep waiting for that ring (which he will never do, cause I'm sure he knows how much she loves his money). But this broad is costing me alot of a**. She's lonely and thinks that I can fill the void emotionally. She can go fubk herself. I have other things to worry about like finding a job in a new city.