Ok Guys, this is a long story and I hope you read it all cos I really need some advice into how to handle this situation tonight....
Ok. I started work at a new place a couple of months ago and immediately got to know this other new girl who started around the same time as me. We hit it off great. We got along, emailed each other daily, went out for lunch together sometimes etc etc.
Around 3 weeks ago we went out one friday night after work together to some bars with some of her and my friends. We then split up for the evening (she left with her friends and me with mine) but agreed to share a cab back together (we live near each other). So end of the night we contacted each other and went back to hers...we got a cab and in the cab i was doing some major kino which she was responding to.
Anyway i spent the night in HER room and in HER bed but didnt get laid!!! She was like "oh lets not get intimate blah blah it would complicate things blah blah". I was like "look we like each other etc etc it will be ok" but she didnt let me f*** her. I even tried some PUA talk like "dont u feel good/comfortable around me? and she was like yeah i do", but it didnt work. So we just slept next to one another and didnt even kiss dudes (i tried lol). we just cuddled up.
So next morning i was like thanks for letting me stay etc etc see u at work. The next week we went to the cinema together one nite after work and I DIDNT try anything (cos i thought maybe she was right).
Now...ever since then she has been really distant from me. she doesnt email anymore, text, call nothing. its as if she doesnt wanna know me anymore.
Tonight is our company xmas party and i will see her there. Now I havent got one-itis on this girl (i dont even want to wifey her) but i want to f*** her.
So, how do u guys think i should act and go about tonight in order to get laid?
thanks
Ocelot
Ok. I started work at a new place a couple of months ago and immediately got to know this other new girl who started around the same time as me. We hit it off great. We got along, emailed each other daily, went out for lunch together sometimes etc etc.
Around 3 weeks ago we went out one friday night after work together to some bars with some of her and my friends. We then split up for the evening (she left with her friends and me with mine) but agreed to share a cab back together (we live near each other). So end of the night we contacted each other and went back to hers...we got a cab and in the cab i was doing some major kino which she was responding to.
Anyway i spent the night in HER room and in HER bed but didnt get laid!!! She was like "oh lets not get intimate blah blah it would complicate things blah blah". I was like "look we like each other etc etc it will be ok" but she didnt let me f*** her. I even tried some PUA talk like "dont u feel good/comfortable around me? and she was like yeah i do", but it didnt work. So we just slept next to one another and didnt even kiss dudes (i tried lol). we just cuddled up.
So next morning i was like thanks for letting me stay etc etc see u at work. The next week we went to the cinema together one nite after work and I DIDNT try anything (cos i thought maybe she was right).
Now...ever since then she has been really distant from me. she doesnt email anymore, text, call nothing. its as if she doesnt wanna know me anymore.
Tonight is our company xmas party and i will see her there. Now I havent got one-itis on this girl (i dont even want to wifey her) but i want to f*** her.
So, how do u guys think i should act and go about tonight in order to get laid?
thanks
Ocelot